alright guys. not too sure what to do just want some input. i know its a long post but please bear with me. back in november this girl at my school added me on myspace. it took me a lil while but i soon figured out who she was. shes definitley attractive and i knew who she was but i never talked to her before. and at the time, things were kinda in limbo with this other girl i kinda liked. so i really didnt use much game on her. i didnt want to lead her on or anything. but i commented her. these comments/ messages went back n forth like this:
me - "hey thanks for the add. whatsup? youre xxxx's sister right??"
hb8 - "hey! yup lol i am!"
hb8 - "how did you know that.. lol "
me - "lucky guess. u looked familiar."
hb8 - "lol nice. well good guess!=) i see you a lot during the day ha."me - "yea o do u happent to have your locker by mine?"
hb8 - "no idk where your locker is, i just see you randomly through out the day i guess lol"
me - "o ok j/w... well then say hi next time u see me alright??"
hb8 - "lol k.. do you even see me during the day?"
(truth is i never really seen her at all that year. i never noticed her really, i didnt know what to say.)
me - "yeah i remember seeing you before, not all that often tho"
hb8 - "ic"
(she starts messagin me now)_______
hb8 - "ha.. people are prly gonna think were kinda werid with the comments.. it makes me sound like a stalker cuz i see you a lot but you dont really see me!"
me - "lol well if u want i could get rid of them lol. its not tooo stalkerish. well now that youve mentioned it ill probably see u a lot more."
hb8 - "nahh its fine i dont care lol.. yahh i see you every day before 8th hour.. then just random times during the day.. do you have 4th hour commons?"
me - "alright. o, no i have 2nd hour commons. "
hb8 - "that sucks! lol a first hour class then 2nd hour commons... hmm i thought i always saw you 4th hour walkin outside.. maybe its 5th hour or something"
me - "yeah it does suck. next semester i have 3,4,5 off so that will be nice. yeah i have 5th hour lunch so maybe."
hb8 - "danngg your lucky! i have 8th hour commons next semester thats it.. but i like it! ha.. yah then thats prly when i see you cuz i have 4 and 5th hour off and im usually out front waiting to pick ppl up"
me - "8th hour isnt soo bad. o ic, what do u drive???"
hb8 - "hah well im still to poor to afford my own car.. but i drive a green accord but im usually in the white tahoe with xxxx"
me - "o ok, yeah i think i saw you guys today. well i think i saw that white tahoe."
hb8 - "yahh she drove it today.. but i wanst with her lol i drovee but tomorrow i'm going to lunch with her nad we'll prly be outside waiting for brittany but we might not be.. idk yet! enough about that haha.."
(i didnt reply to the last message, i couldnt game her all that much cuz i was interested in this other girl. but the next da she sends me a message right away after school)
hb8 - "alright soo idk if you hear brit and amanda after lunch but sam asked who you were cuz she saw my messages and she wanted me to show her to you today and i did but then jara wnated to go to the bathroom and amanda asked who you were n i walked away cuz i didnt hear her n they started yelling dumb shit lol so yahh.. ignore what they said if you heard it! cuz it was just them being retarted"
(i actually did hear them yelling but i didnt know what it was about and didnt hear it.)
me - "alright lol, actually i didnt hear anything so dont worry bout it haha. i didnt even see them so idk."
hb8 - "haha okayy good!"
i began to notive her alot after that. i made eye contact a several times. most times she would see me right away. but i never got the chance to even say hi. she would always be talking with her friends or too far away. but within those next 2 weeks i convinced myself to give this girl a shot. and suddenly this other girl from earlier began playing me again. i got my hopes up thought she liked me but i was wrong. i totally gave up on her a few weeks back. i wanted to try for this other girl again but i really dont get the chance to talk to her in person ever. so on myspace last week i commented her just being casual like "hey whatsup". we had a short conversation and i was playing some cocky humor into it. and i cut it off short saying i was leaving to the hockey game. she never messaged me after that. maybe i didnt get her attention good enough?
what should i do now. this week i let her catch me looking at her a couple times and i let out s nice smile. but i dont know what to talk about now. i cant tell if she still likes me cuz she never tried talking to me after that last message. she would just look at me once in a while. i think maybe cuz she found out i lied that other girl. maybe from reading my comments or something saying how we were going to lunch together.
IOI's
-when she added me i was her only "new friend" so she wasnt mass adding friends, she found me
-mentions seeing me a lot
-dragged on the convo a little.
-that long run on sentence message with no punctuation. about
her friends yelling stuff at me about her??
-used to look at me a lot but didnt flirt
and i just noticed i closed it pretty bad. almost rude. i was actually in a hurry so i just typed "ooo ic, that does suck. well im going to the hockey game. ttyl"
how can i fix this???
i know someone is probably going to tell me i got "one-itis" but you guys are the best for this advice, and there arent many girls i can go for in my school anymore without coming off as a player. this board has helped a lot in the past. what should i do now?
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