I'm not new to online dating, I consider myself pretty decent at it definitely with the help of this forum. I'm in a new city for a new job though but I can probably get at least a date a week if I wanted to, but I've been disappointed after realizing some are actually older looking than their pic or fatter so I choose more carefully now.
Anyway, so I saw this one girl online, we chatted on OKCupid... got her to SPAM with me. We had a good time, we talked for almost 2 hours before I cut it short to go to sleep. The usual stuff, joking around, building rapport, negging here and there. (possibly could've negged more/flirted more)
So the next day, I saw that she viewed my profile again. Good sign. We chatted at night on OKCupid before I cut it short since she seemed busy. The next day, I messaged her, apologized for leaving so quick but I was tired, asked her for her number so we can talk/ set something up.. like go to vegas, get married etc... (a text I got from here somewhere) of course it was a joke but she said vegas sounds good right about now, here's my #... so I text her later, back and forth a bit and she was down to go to vegas, but she's busy the next 2 weekends so we planned for october (I'm definitely trying to meet her up before I even consider going to vegas with her), she doesn't seem like much of a texter or doesn't get text humor. Eventually she didnt respond to my last msg, which was ok because it wasn't a question or anything. 24hrs later... today... I sent her an opener, "hey, i was just thinking about you, wish you were here... so you can cook for me.
" (we talked about her cooking for me before) but I got no response. I enjoyed skyping with her, she actually looked decent. I actually saw her on OKCupid right now but I didn't message her. I know I'm just paranoid and that I should just move on or at least talk to 10 other girls or something. Which I'm doing anyway... but wanted to see if there's anything I can learn from this or if there's anything I can do. Thanks in advance.
Btw, this isn't my first post, not that I had many anyway, but realize my SN was the same as all my online dating SNs. So just wanted to be safe.