One I've been using lately..
"Hey _her name_, I saw you viewed my profile, so I gave yours a read. You seem like _quality about her you like/noticed_ and your profile is _good/interesting/funny/whatever_. Thought maybe you'd be interested in chatting some time, and getting to know one another better. Well, if so, drop me a line and let's chat!
Talk to you soon,
_my name_"
This is very basic, but it's succinct, to the point, and gets the important formalities out of the way while expressing intent.
After they respond, I give them at least 12 hours, then say something along the lines of:
"Hey this medium is a little cumbersome for me, mind if we take this to phone/text?"
After they've responded once, they have already shown they're interested.. This will usually result in a # or at the very least, an email. If they respond with an email address I put them on the back burner but will email them 2-3 days later with something that qualifies them and demonstrates high value. "Hey, just here for a moment. Been really busy with _something interesting."... etc etc.
Hopefully I'm not derailing/hijacking your thread. Just wanted to share what's been working for me lately, as simple as it is.
K-closed a girl tonight after 2 dates in 1 day, upon her request. We have another planned for tomorrow.
Also have 2 others in the wind right now, both are out-of-towners so we'll see how it works out. One is DTF (and expressed it) and the other is one who gave me her email rather than phone #.
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I dont know guess cause you have yet to ask a girl out mister.