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Author:  Graden [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 4:27 pm ]
Post subject:  First attempts at online sarging
I just joined this forum today so that I can get some advice on this current conversation I'm having with a possible HB9.

Me(Opening):
Aug 27, 2012 – 9:22pm
I really like your eyes but are you the type that is always wearing lots of make-up?

Her:
Aug 27, 2012 – 10:09pm
no i barely wear any most of the time. :) i like to b natural.

Me:
Aug 28, 2012 – 10:26am
I like that, what is it that you do?

Her:
Aug 28, 2012 – 11:43am
right now im a student and thats my focus. hbu?
Report this

Me
Aug 29, 2012 – 12:32am
I'm also in school, though it's not my only focus. I'm more focused on saving the world from the winter solstice of 2012 whilst meeting gorgeous Italian girls :p (Her username has gorgeous in it and she's Italian)

Her:
Aug 29, 2012 – 12:35am
Haha wow that's interesting :)

Me:
Aug 29, 2012 – 12:41am
Actually, the two are linked. I'm told by ancient Mayan artifacts that if I can get the number of a true gorgeous Italian girl, the movement may make serious progress. :)

Her:
Aug 29, 2012 – 12:46am
Lol ur too funny ;)

Me:
Aug 29, 2012 – 1:05am
So you don't know the numbers to any then huh? Shame we only have a few months to live, I might just settle for you then :)

Her:
Aug 29, 2012 – 9:58am
Ur pick up lines r so unique lmao I laugh every time I read what u write. And u shouldn't settle cuz I won't :)


Going for cocky funny obviously, failed to get the number close. Another thing is that if I did get the number I'm not sure where I would take it from there or how to make that into a meeting in person. Is she genuinely entertained by my tactics or do you think she's playing me, any help is appreciated.[/code]
Author:  NikAFC [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 5:38 pm ]
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that's pretty good for a beginner tbh :)
Author:  Faust23 [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 1:52 am ]
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Online is hard, cause sarcasm and joking are harder to pull off without body language. When you said settle, it was a little neg but came off as an isult. Like I said online is tough, you got to walk on egg shells with negs, infact I don't use them online. If that was not meant as a neg, well I read it and cringed.
Author:  iceg001 [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:08 am ]
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dont just give up you asked too soon for the number without building report
tease her some more and keep the cocky funny stuff going she obviously likes it
and once you have enough report then you number close
Author:  joy smith [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:26 am ]
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i don not think its good
Author:  Graden [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:43 am ]
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i don not think its good
Very constructive, thank you.

And thanks to the others, Ive been doing my research and others have said they try number closes with in only a few messages, oh well.. I'm still working on this one but I think I'm falling off, I tried the "nice girl" it won't work thing but she just said "ok lol". .. Kind of lost motivation on that one I guess. Keep the criticism coming..
Author:  NikAFC [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 12:43 pm ]
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i don not think its good
Very constructive, thank you.

And thanks to the others, Ive been doing my research and others have said they try number closes with in only a few messages, oh well.. I'm still working on this one but I think I'm falling off, I tried the "nice girl" it won't work thing but she just said "ok lol". .. Kind of lost motivation on that one I guess. Keep the criticism coming..
You're doing it right man. Your goal in online dating should be try and get the number asap and then don't log in again. It is true that there's no more than 2-3 messages needed online and from then on take it to the next level which is txt. It makes it more personal if she's not willing to give the number away fuck her next girl... She's just playing hard to get get those girls off the list.
Author:  Faust23 [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 6:23 pm ]
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i don not think its good
Very constructive, thank you.

And thanks to the others, Ive been doing my research and others have said they try number closes with in only a few messages, oh well.. I'm still working on this one but I think I'm falling off, I tried the "nice girl" it won't work thing but she just said "ok lol". .. Kind of lost motivation on that one I guess. Keep the criticism coming..
You're doing it right man. Your goal in online dating should be try and get the number asap and then don't log in again. It is true that there's no more than 2-3 messages needed online and from then on take it to the next level which is txt. It makes it more personal if she's not willing to give the number away fuck her next girl... She's just playing hard to get get those girls off the list.
I agree completely go to text as soon as possible, I have got the number in 4-5 messages most of the time. I always pull " I don't go on here that often, give me your number so we can talk some more" notice you tell her not ask for it.
Author:  NikAFC [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 8:57 pm ]
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yeah man that's how u do it.
When i want a girls number i first give her mine and then ask for hers and just come up with a random justification or excuse.

That's how u do it
Author:  forerunner_uk [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 9:26 pm ]
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With online dating if a girl replies to you then you should be able to get a date every time near enough if you are good.
Agree with the other member here - nowhere near enough rapport building on this one. I would go down the route of structuring your messages into groups of 3 (I mean the second, third, fourth message after she's replied to your first one - your opener was pretty good):

Part 1 - some funny shit like what you have used to make her laugh

Part 2 - something that references something in her profile asking her a genuine question about herself

Part 3 - something a bit cocky making you sound good ending with a wink and an open ended flirty question (no mention of sex - just flirt)

Do this a few times and you should see the length of her replies increase. If she is writing essays you know you are in. Don't move too soon. TALK to her. Carry on the flirting, throw in a few DHV routines (I've got some if you need them). After 2-3 days (yes days) say something like "hey I don't know if this is too soon but fancy meeting up". If you've done it right she will say yes - it should seem inevitable that she will meet you. She will already have told her friends about you and invested herself totally in you. Swap numbers then. Or you could ask for her number as a close and start texting her a bit - some girls like that.

If you don't build rapport like that you'll get lots of date cancellations. Saying "yes" to a date is easy online but then come date-day the fear of going to meet a stranger will kick in and she won't show.
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