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Author:  TheSeagull [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  FB banter with college friend
Background: GM is a friend of a college friend of mine. We are casual acquaintances but still friends on FB. HB6. I had to delete her from Facebook since my exGF was jealous of her (weird!) but added her back when I started dating J. She is in Italy. I am in California. Apparently has a boyfriend.

Last night she put a new profile picture of herself with a tank top that showed a lot of cleavage

This is the convo that followed. Initially as comments to the picture


Seagull "M, cover yourself up"
GM "Seagull, mind your business ;)"
Seagull "Not funny!"
GM "I guessed. But it's not a very naughty picture, come on!"
Seagull "Those will come on the weekend!"
GM "You can find a hundred or so in the "Portraits" section. Obviously, they are ARTSY pictures with no vulgar stuff in them"
Seagull "Thanks for the hint classmate. And (obviously) sexy != vulgar"
GM "OBVIOUS! Needless to say, no such album on my profile. But I may end up making it. Kisses!!!!!!"
Seagull "What? Does not exist? I had believed it!! I shall go back to my place heartbroken"
GM "Eeeeeh I know I know. I am not a well behaved girl. Be patient"
Seagull "Miss M, give me a good reason to be patient with u :)"
GM "Do not call me M. Call me Gigì. I am starting to create my character..."
Seagull "You got the right boobs.... ;)"
GM "ahahaha, SEAGULL!!!"
Seagull "What?"
GM "I am blocking you!"
Seagull "You are being bad ;)"
GM "Obvious"
Seagull "OK, next time I will write this in private mail so you won't misbehave"
GM "This is overly daring! Shame on you"

And here I send her a PM:

Seagull "As I was saying... Cover your boob miss Gigì"
GM "Whatever. Not much to hide. I am not that curvy. Blocking you nonetheless"
Seagull "For saying boob. Or for saying to hide it?"
GM "Silly question. The latter.... Kidding!"
Seagull "Then show more of it"
GM "I AM LEAVING"
Seagull "Going to take your bra off?"
GM "To study! Advice: cold shower! LOL! Have a good morning"
Seagull "Good night you mean"

and she also wrote a comment to the pic "Let me go to study. Hi from Gigi (who's a vamp not a porn actress, since sexy != vulgar!) ;) byeee"

Question 1: feel free to critique this convo and provide ideas for improvement
Question 2: I would like for this to evolve towards sexting. Not a huge deal if it does or not, but I think it would be fun. How do I tackle that? I was thinking to see if she opens back. And if she does not, in a few days to open with a variation of the dream routine where I say I had a dream about her alter-ego Gigì.. and see where it leads. Any better ideas?
Author:  TheSeagull [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 9:16 pm ]
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bump
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:36 pm ]
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The interaction was cool. You handled it pretty well.

My only thing is,why would you delete a girl just because your GF wants you to?

That's pretty weak and Beta-male like.
Author:  TheSeagull [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 10:57 pm ]
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My only thing is,why would you delete a girl just because your GF wants you to?

That's pretty weak and Beta-male like.
Agreed. My previous GF was a freak, and my game was much weaker than it is now. I mismanaged that relationship in a number of ways. So, full blame on that. I learned, and moved on to a better relationship where I constantly work on my inner game.

How would you proceed to escalate this? As said, I am not interested in anything more than sexting this chick (even a one-time thing is fine). It is mostly for fun.
My plan is to wait a few days and then open her again saying I made an interesting dream about her vamp alter-ego. A naughty dream of course :wink:
Any better ideas?
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:15 pm ]
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Understood.

Sexting is super easy to transition into.

In fact,I take back my first remark where I'd said that this was a good chat. It was fucking horrible!!!

I'd only read the 1st interaction but didn't notice the PM section to it.

That was horribly done bro'!!!

You don't transition into sexting the way you did,or the target is just going to lock up as her ASD(anti-slut defense) gets activated by your covert tactics. Not saying you should be overt,b ut you cannot be talking about removing bras and expect it to lead into sexting at that juncture.

Sexting can only be created on a HIGH note. This was obviously a high note,but the banter(which is good) threw it off. That's where you need to learn calibration and social vibing.

I sext everyday on every medium(Twitter PM/DM),FB chat,e-mail,etc. with random chics who happened to be following me or in my FB friend list. They send naked photos and all. It just takes persuasion.

I know I got off topic,but refine your social vibing and calibration(timing)
Author:  TheSeagull [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:18 pm ]
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Good advice.
On my next attempt I will try to calibrate better.

Thanks man :!:
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 11:32 pm ]
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Good advice.
On my next attempt I will try to calibrate better.

Thanks man :!:
Not only how to calibrate better,but how to transition into a "sexual state".

You were in a banter state(which is super good for building attraction),but you failed to correctly transition into a sexual state.
Author:  TheSeagull [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 3:59 pm ]
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you failed to correctly transition into a sexual state.
would you mind giving an example of how you would have done the transition to sexual state?
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 6:04 pm ]
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you failed to correctly transition into a sexual state.
would you mind giving an example of how you would have done the transition to sexual state?
Kinda interested in the same thing as Seagull
Well what I mean about transition into a sexual state,it's pretty self-explanatory.

You can't transition into a sexual state the way Seagull did it(while the girl isn't sexually receptive to him).

He did the right thing by bantering,but by doing that(talking about removing bra),he activated her ASD.

To avoid activating her ASD,he should've transitioned from the flirty banter into something more socially acceptable.

Then,transition into a sexual state.

So,from flirting and bantering,into non-sexual,then sexual.
Author:  TheSeagull [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 7:01 pm ]
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So,from flirting and bantering,into non-sexual,then sexual.
I will try to re-open this target. Or find a new promising one. And see if I can get the transition right.

If anyone has sample convos where they got this right, feel free to share them.
I will do the same next time I get the pattern right.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Aug 29, 2012 11:49 pm ]
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So,from flirting and bantering,into non-sexual,then sexual.
I will try to re-open this target. Or find a new promising one. And see if I can get the transition right.

If anyone has sample convos where they got this right, feel free to share them.
I will do the same next time I get the pattern right.
I'd reopen her.

As Tyler Durden said,"Persistent is key".

My style is, I never give up on seducing a chic until 2 things happen:either I f-close her,or we have a major fall out from me going too hard.

I never give up half way.

Not that you have to adopt my method,but I think you should go until you C&B(crash and burn).

As far as the tactic of sexual transition,it's definitely a psych-out.

You're tricking the women into getting sexual unto sexting(your goal).

You're flying under the radar by going from sexual(flirty) to casual then sexual.
Author:  joy smith [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 2:28 am ]
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everyone has his own opinion
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