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| Author: | TheYesMan [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 1:23 pm ] |
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I could have sworn I had this HB9 at the second to last msg she sent to me, especially since were were msging back and forth from lunch until 11. So I went for the number in my final msg but got no response. Did I go about it the wrong way?: Me: What's up Rachel! I guess you have to make people feel pretty comfortable if they're coming in to get waxed, haha. I bet that's just a ploy though and you find it pretty amusing. Her: Hahaha I'm not going to lie it is quite a stress reliever and super funny Me: That's funny! Sounds like an interesting career. It must be scary getting some of those real wilderbeast hairy fuggers, lol. Her: Oh he'll yeah it is!!!! Ah and sometimes they smell!!:x Me: Hehe, I can definitely see that ruining someones Monday morning. Besides work what are some fun things to you like to do around _____? I haven't really been in that area for a while. Her: I mostly venture to ___ and down tOwn ___ is dead lol Me: Hehe, I didn't want to say it. That's why I love living inside the city. There's a lot of fun things to do. When you say downtown do you mean like House of Blues or _____? Her: Both lol, it's always good to switch it up:-) Me: Hehe, that's true. So what's the plan for tonight? Her: Well just got done running now fixing to shower then bed:-) Me: Sounds like an early Friday. Do you have work in the morning? I was going to say come grab a drink with me. Unless it's already past you're bedtime. Her: Yeah I work at 839:( otherwise I would have lol:) Me: Maybe some other time then? I get pretty busy on the weekends so I may not be on here as much. Give me you're number and I'll send you a text when I get the chance. Then nothing. |
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| Author: | Sheepy111 [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 9:16 pm ] |
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probably would have cut the last message down, said maybe some other time, here's my number (newbie advice!) |
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| Author: | lor0001 [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 10:52 pm ] |
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You were way to supplicating when you asked her to hang out. It came across as "Maybe..sometime you would like to let me buy you a drink..." and then you handed her an excuse "unless it's already past your bedtime" There are tons of posts out there that cover the importance of finding out her schedule BEFORE asking her to hang out. That way you can suggest sometime when she's free. Rather than guessing over and over (which comes off as chasing). |
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| Author: | TheYesMan [ Wed Sep 05, 2012 1:35 am ] |
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Great advice. Thanks guys. |
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| Author: | TheYesMan [ Wed Oct 03, 2012 4:07 pm ] |
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I know this is a dead topic but I have been trolling around OkCupid a while now and haven't had any good hits since here. I was able to get this chicks number a few days later and we arranged a meet for drinks like we were discussing but the day of she backed out. I'm not sure if there was enough comfort there or not. However, I have been seeing her on the website a few times since and have been wondering if there is a way I can get another shot at this. I know it's just beating a dead horse here since it's usually one shot, but it'd be nice if there was a way to re-engage. Any thoughts? |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Wed Oct 03, 2012 4:50 pm ] |
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Just re-open her! I like to give them a pet name or a common familiarity statement during my first few convos. This makes it easier to use recall when you text them later. Think of somehting witty to say and then send it! Think of it this way, you don't have her now, so what do you have to lose?! Peace... |
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| Author: | Mason1228 [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 12:19 am ] |
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^^ OkCupid sucks. I don't know what it is but i can not get girls to message me back on OKC. Whereas on Match i have a pretty decent response rate and have been on about 8 dates since joining in beginning of August. OKC i've had one date and about a 25% the response rate as Match. |
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| Author: | Ravengage [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 12:38 am ] |
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Probably because okcupid is free and match isn't, if she's paying to meet people she's less likely to just ignore you. Our of curiosity what is/are your opener(s)? As for re-opening a girl there's plenty of ways to do it, just find one that fits your style. You got nothing to lose. |
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| Author: | Mason1228 [ Tue Oct 09, 2012 1:10 am ] |
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I've tried canned stuff from on here with 0% response. Medium/in-depth messages with mild success. My best responses come from short messages usually just commenting on one or two interesting parts of their profile (to make it look like I give a shit lol OR I also have success negging girls from rival schools (i graduated fyi in-state) or asking about the coolest place they traveled if they mention traveling in their profile. |
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