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Author:  marshymell0 [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 4:20 am ]
Post subject:  Met girl at party, she added me on FB next day
we talked a bit, and I could see her eying me throughout the night, we chatted on and off throughout the night and I'm thinking of an opener

I have not accepted the request yet

thinking of something along the lines of option 1...

first, not saving me meatballs (she had made meatballs for the party and I had went out so I didn't get any). Now, requesting facebook friendship without an introduction! D:
(but I don't know if this is too "mean" and I kinda want to soften it up a bit)

second...maybe approach it from the fact that she wanted to go play badminton with me someday so just going with something like
"soo Ill see you "insert random day" for our baddy session right?"
Author:  Periplo [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 8:38 am ]
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I think option 1 would work, but add at the end "how dare you!?", something more playful, not a sad face. Anyway, you can be "mean", but add a punch line to make it affable.
Author:  BScott [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 6:55 pm ]
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I personally would just go direct. Her adding you is an IOI. "Cool seeing you at the party, you seemed fun. Let's grab a drink sometime." It's totally innocuous and could be taken as an overture of friendship.

If you prefer to be more indirect.

"Hey Name, I missed out on your meatballs, they went too fast :( By the laws and statutes of new friends you totally owe me meatballs now."

If she gives in and says she will then just say "Alright, let's grab drinks this week and talk about when you'll pay me my meatball restorations."

If she fights you on it "Oh wow, you are totally breaking the rules of the new friend act, how does "mutual friend" put up with you? ;)
Author:  marshymell0 [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 4:13 am ]
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she wrote

haha no problem at all. i will gladly make you meatballs next time [:P] !
and yes, very cool meeting you at the party!!
Author:  marshymell0 [ Mon Aug 20, 2012 4:46 pm ]
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hmm so I got a response:

haha thats so funny...eating meatballs while badminton [:P] ?!

whenever you guys are up for it, lemme know!!

Should I push for a 1 on 1 and if so how? or just try to grab a couple of people to make her more comfortable?
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