this is a dating website, and you have pretty much absolutely no investment from this girl at all, she has nothing to lose by blowing you off, so threatening her with you going away is probably not the best strategy at this point
now, have your comments been authentic, or were you just blowing shit out of your ass in the hopes for approval?
cause this is where approval seeking will fuck you, if you had been honest with everything you had said up until this point, you would be able to answer her in an honest way and assert your frame, she picked on the greek comment cause it seems incongruent (or at least it does to me), and the remove the picture thing obviously irritated her and got her attention
the idea I have for you is to re-frame this interaction, and stop saying weird shit that isn't true in the hopes of a positive response, stick with the productive aspects of your frame, disreguard her emotional garbage
''you must be seeing 100s of new messages all the time with that profile, it must be so hard to weed through all that for guys that are actually genuinely interested, I know with out narrowing down specifics it is tough to filter out a girl who isn't fake, greek people tend to have a nice olive complextion with european features, lol you better know what a greek person looks like, considering you probably know quite a few greek people, you look more exotic to me then european, (now fucking change the subject, what you want to talk about is up to you, but if you linger on this, there is probably no fucking chance, pick a place to lead to, if you end this without something else for her to grab on to, you are putting the leadership of this interaction in her court, and judging by her deminor she will not play ball)
GOOD LUCK
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