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Author:  baller9sm [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:08 am ]
Post subject:  Tip to open this girl up.
So i hit up this girl on facebook and here is how the conversation went. :

me: A***** D***.. i like that name.
her: That's nice.
me: yeah. i know :) (just trying to see if she still responds)
her: If you're not going to use proper grammar and spelling, please don't talk to me.
me: O.o other than capitalization, my spelling and grammar's good. But for you, I will start capitalizing. :)
her: If you do anything for me, I'll hunt you down and hurt you.
me: Well that's not very nice of you. Although it would be kinda cool to be hunted.
her: I'm not a very nice person. Oh, and don't flirt with me if you ever plan on flirting. I'm not interested in you.
me: I plan on being nice. :)
her: You smile too much..
me: Smiling is good for health. You should try it.
her: I don't like smiling, I like to fake a smile.
me: Now why is that? You+smile=gorgeousness
her: Because I like being depressed. Me+fake smile= beautiful!
me: That's unfortunate. And Gorgeous>beautiful. Just saying. :)
her: Not really. That's the point. I'm not gorgeous, I'm beautiful. Just sayin'
me: You're pulchritudinous. There. :)
her: Seriously, you smile way too much.
me: Okay. Serious face it is then. No more smiling. Just for you. (are you going to hunt me now?)
her: -.-''
me: Hm. Is that a yes, or a no? I can't decide! D:
her: I won't hunt you, I'll just sick my cousins boyfriend after you. They live in (the town i live in), so I'd be careful if I were you.
me: Darn. What a story it would be to tell when I'm 80 years old. Being hunted by a gorgeous for being nice. And Good thing I'm not in *********** right now. Seems like I'll be safe for atleast 2 weeks.
her: dumbass. -.-
me: I think the word you are looking for is smartass.
her: no, dumbass.
me: if believing that will help you sleep at night then so be it. I'll be dumbass. Just for you. (i say this again cause of the earlier thing)
her: -.-"

i havent replied yet but how should i take it from here? or shouuld i just let her go?
Author:  JackBNimble [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:52 am ]
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You forgot to edit the town name out the second time. Also, lose this girl, she has issues you don't need to deal with.
Author:  baller9sm [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 4:55 am ]
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Whoops! haha and how are things from my end though?
Author:  JackBNimble [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 5:26 am ]
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You kept jumping through her hoops.
Author:  dubsteplove [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 5:34 am ]
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I kinda agree with JackBnimble sounds like she has a bitch shield up, if so you might want to take it down before jumping through any more hoops. Also your being two nice, in my experience nice guys don't get too far.
Author:  trick182 [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 5:51 am ]
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lol its funny how much you kept goin at it and at first i thot those were shit-tests but yea this girl has issues.

also, i keep thinking you're complimenting this girl too much like your putting her on a pedestal or something. its like you kept saying "you have more value than me and ima keep talking," while shes like, "i know i do so get away creep."

i'd cut this girl lose but in a bang like ok im done being the nice guy because clearly you dont get out much

i'd also point out the fact that she could've ended the conversation earlier but she kept on going thus showing she was attracted to you but in a weird nasty way.

either way she has to go bye-bye you know.

hope it works out in your favor.peace.
Author:  baller9sm [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 6:33 am ]
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I am a nice guy. Lol and i am not sure if this means anything but I got her to smile. You guys were though, she had her bitch shield up. I tore that shit apart somehow >.> and thanks for your input guys.
Author:  JackBNimble [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 7:37 am ]
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Lol. I could tell that wasn't bitch shield right away. Guarantee you she's just a manipulator. The entire conversation she was trying to impose her super controlling frame, hence my stating she has issues. Each time you rejected her frame, she gave you a hoop. Sooner or later you'd lose frame to her, then she'd go to work on you.

Its the psycho bitch version of pua.

I still say lose her. That chick is a snake imo.

Willing to bet she's trying to Franklin Effect you. If she doesn't respond in proportion to your investment, she's just letting you undermine your own frame.
Author:  jurupa [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 7:41 am ]
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Quote:
I got her to smile.
Not really.
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You guys were though, she had her bitch shield up. I tore that shit apart somehow >.>
Not in the slightest.

You should have teased her more and used more cocky and funny on her. Her bitch shield was up the whole time and she was basically annoyed by you. Read the conversation again and this time focus on her tone.
Author:  fuserleer [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 10:09 am ]
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good lord, drop her man, why on earth you carried on talking to her after the first couple sentences I don't know!
Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 11:02 am ]
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She sounds like a total head fuck.
Author:  baller9sm [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 1:56 pm ]
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I talked to her some more after cause I didn't have anything better to do since I'm stuck in a shitty little town. She started opening up telling me why she acted like a bitch and blah blah.

Also not related to this topic itself but in general, how do I control the frame? I'm pretty new to this stuff.
Author:  Cheyenne [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 6:35 pm ]
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I talked to her some more after cause I didn't have anything better to do since I'm stuck in a shitty little town. She started opening up telling me why she acted like a bitch and blah blah.

Also not related to this topic itself but in general, how do I control the frame? I'm pretty new to this stuff.
That's just excuses. You should have acted like you are really annoyed now and that she should have appologised.
Author:  Mig [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 7:02 pm ]
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...No good Brother. But you can get there. Maybe not with this girl though.
1) never do anything you did in your first example...ever again.
2) grammar doesn't matter here...but if you're hitting on a girl, match her writing. If she says LOL wut R u up 2. Go for it. Type like an idiot. If she says, "You're not a very intelligent guy, are you?" you respond with, "Your Parents obviously didn't teach you not to talk to strangers. You're either plain feisty or have a dangerous side...I bet you cross the sidewalk and only look one way."
3) She lives in your world...not vice versa. If she says something you don't like...ignore it. Don't say "Just for you." ...why would you change who you are just for her? If she calls you a dumbass, change the topic to something you want to.
4) IOI's aren't always clear...especially with girls that want to come across as bad-asses. I would say she was actually minorly interested and being playful here:
"her: If you do anything for me, I'll hunt you down and hurt you."
5) If you're going to hit on her now, I would use a routine that...ALWAYS...WORKS.
Ex. I was having lunch with my friend Sarah and I need you to settle a debate we were having. Who lies more, men or women?
Ex. My friend Matt is in this huge argument with his GF because she found pictures of his recent ex in a box under his bed. She only found them because she was cleaning his apartment while he was gone. Is it wrong for him to keep them, he claims they are important memories from his past.
Author:  baller9sm [ Sat Aug 11, 2012 2:09 am ]
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Thanks guys.. I feel like i can get better at this shit. :) Another question not related to this.. So i hit up this girl on facebook earlier today cause she left her purse at my workplace couple of days ago. We seem to have friends in common though we have never talked before. Should i hit her up again? and if i should then what should i say?? sorry if I am asking really stupid questions. I am just trying to get into this thing. Thanks :)
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