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| Author: | coyote_5 [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | a week until first date, how to keep interest until then? |
Met a girl on OkCupid, actually she messaged me first. We only messaged back and forth a few times over the last couple days and I suggested that we could continue chatting on line but I think it's more fun to do it in person, and she should meet me for a drink. She agreed but it probably won't be until a week from now. What's the best way to continue communication and build interest? Thx! |
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| Author: | TheSeagull [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:53 pm ] |
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I had a similar situation happen to me once. The fact that the girl was very much into texting helped. I used the days leading to the date to establish a sexual frame, with lots of teasing and innuendos. Needless to say, the first date quickly escalated to heavy make out. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:23 pm ] |
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Every once in a while drop her some random funny text. Make her smile/laugh a few times and you will not only be on her mind, but you will be increasing interest. Peace... |
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| Author: | coyote_5 [ Sat Aug 11, 2012 9:07 pm ] |
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LOL, so I messaged this chick (girl A) last Thursday about a date this week and haven't heard back yet and know I think I know why. Another chick (girl b) I messaged about 15 minutes after her (girl A) that day just messaged me and said she (girl B) heard I may have a date with her friend (girl A) next week. LOL So out of all the birds on this site, I managed to choose one of girl A's friends! What's my play. I'm assuming shes somewhat put off by this, but must still be open to having a drink since the other girl mentioned it. I don't feel like I have anything to apologize for, but how do I approach this with girl A to keep "hand"? |
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| Author: | JackBNimble [ Sat Aug 11, 2012 11:05 pm ] |
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Don't worry about it, you're exploring your options, its what you're there to do. Don't even acknowledge it as anything more than a funny coincidence. Don't be so eager to hand this girl your balls. |
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| Author: | Mig [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 2:06 pm ] |
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Quote: I managed to choose one of girl A's friends!
I had this same problem last Sunday, though the difference once, they were roommates, and I'd been talking to girl A for a week (super attractive)...girl B knew this, messaged me, was easy to lead to text/date that day...then revealed I'd been talking with her *hotter* roommate. My angle was going to be, "next time let's all go out." Then...instead...she asked me out with all of them anyways. Gotta love it when girls fix the problems they made. Go out with either and then just make the next activity involve both of them. |
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| Author: | Entourages [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 2:55 pm ] |
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Ping... this is the art of texting where you just send a short/humerous text with no strings attached, you arent looking for a response, but if given one you can reply like 2 hrs later, and just keep you in her thoughts. Google it. You will find examples. |
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| Author: | coyote_5 [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 1:59 am ] |
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I managed to sort it out well. "Hey Skates, we may need to put off our drink until I can get to the barber because your friend gave me the heads up that mullets are no longer considered "cool"... But seriously, I'm looking forward to it, whaddaya say?" Worked like a charm. My message to her friend had been related to a comment in her profile about how horrible mullets are. |
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| Author: | Entourages [ Wed Aug 15, 2012 8:45 pm ] |
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Quote: I managed to sort it out well.
Good shit, in some text say when do you want to meet X or Y and then at A or B time dont give her a Yes or No response rather a X or Y (lol) response. Its better for anti-rejections.
"Hey Skates, we may need to put off our drink until I can get to the barber because your friend gave me the heads up that mullets are no longer considered "cool"... But seriously, I'm looking forward to it, whaddaya say?" Worked like a charm. My message to her friend had been related to a comment in her profile about how horrible mullets are. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 6:23 am ] |
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I have this chick who is currently on vacation in florida till the end of the month. We have a date planned when she gets back. She has been sending me pictures nonstop, it first started with normal face pic, now she just sent me her picture in bathing suit. I didn't even game her hardcore. Just couple fun responses here and there. I think it works great because I'm unavailable most of the time. I don't respond to her pictures till hours later. Sometimes I takes 2-3 days to reply her back. She's a singer in a band and used to all the attention, so it pokes her when I'm not giving her any. The key is just be aloof. Send her some random funny text and after she responds, stop reply or reply with 1-2 text then stop. Let her text you again. |
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| Author: | BScott [ Thu Aug 16, 2012 6:45 pm ] |
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To the original post, I usually try to have more than one thread going with a girl, and one of them is always logistics of meeting up. The other one or two can be anything, but it's usually something innocuous like whatever my dog just did (sending a photo) etc., It doesn't matter what, just something to maintain her state as you work through the logistics. The worst exchanges are ones that are purely scheduling. The nice thing about a pet is that you can re-engage with a super cute photo or story at anytime. |
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