Ok so she's 38, i'm like early 20s. I've been having some good mature conversation with her, and also some playful
ME: 7/31/2012 5:33:39 PM
Hey you look great and seem really interesting! If you're interested in anything purely short term based give me a message. How are you anyway?
HER: 8/3/2012 8:43:11 AM
Having recently been 'stood up' by a 26 year old who I lectured about our age difference for a week, I am unlikely to fall twice for the patter of one so young. Nice to be 'appreciate'd tho
xME: 8/3/2012 10:42:44 AM
Sorry to hear that! However, if you were going to say the same about people more your own age then you would be quickly running out of options haha!
I'm no timewaster myself and feel the only way to prove that is to start with some good conversation. I am an intelligent, mature, honest person, and i know myself that there's nothing worse than someone lying or flaking on you!
I hope you can get past that person and talk to me because as said you do look interesting, and intelligent and are blessed with great looks. I'm *** by the way
HER: 8/3/2012 11:36:30 AM
I'm ***, pleased to 'meet' you *** x
SKIPPING A BIT OF CONVO
HER: 8/3/2012 3:23:58 PM
Ask away.., I don't mind.
I love Crime thrillers (patricia cornwell) funny chick lit, and yes I've read the Fifty Shades Trilogy. How about you? Are you a reader? xx
ME: 8/3/2012 3:31:02 PM
That's cool, it seems like every woman around seems to have read the Fifty Shades stuff lately! Interesting that it's taken off so well as isn't it a new release?
HER: 8/3/2012 3:34:49 PM
I find little time to read so choose carefully as it's a favourite past time of mine. Between the children, the dog and my job 'me time' is limited so reading goes by the wayside a bit.
Fifty Shades has reached epic proportions because British women are traditionally repressed when it comes to sex and the author has liberated a good many of those women lol.
ME: 8/3/2012 3:40:23 PM
Yes I'm sure, it's always nice to find some time somewhere to read though!
I am not at all surprised that it's taken off really for the reasons you state.. You a typical British woman then*!? Fair play to the author finding that hole in the market really, must be making a lot of money now!
*You don't have to answer that haha.
HER: 8/3/2012 3:42:56 PM
Erm no lol!
So we then said a bit more, just about ourselves really. We then said bye. I reoponed her 2 days later and he said she was about to go off and gave me her number.
Talking about things she is writing, she said she is writing a book SPAM..:
HER: I've written erotic passages over the years but burned them in a fit of pique a few years ago.
ME: Ahh no. What made u start writing them then?
HER: I enjoy writing and needed a channel for my thoughts so i combined the two...
ME: That's cool so you aren't the sexually repressed type then haha
HER: Absolutely not, during my 20s it was something i felt guilty about but during my 30s i have learnt to embrace it
ME: Yeah definitely. It's who you are, can't change that.
HER: It's an identity i keep closely guarded obviously lol
ME: Haha so shall i feel privelaged that i have told me
HER: Yes lol. I'm a mummy first and a sex kitten second xD
Me: Sex kitten. haven't heard that one before lol
HER: That's because we're a whole generation apart almost
Me: That's true, you always been a sex kitten then lol
HER There was a time i mistook sexual attention for feeling and have learned to recognise the signs of a genuine partner from one who is looking for just sex... Didn't know what to say about this. Seemed like a test but yeah i carried the conversation back into something less sexual
She then was going on about trust and worried i might not be who i say i am. We mutually accept we hope it won't be in her words our downfall.
BIT LATER
ME: Where are you from exactly?
HER: blah blah, not only too old but too far too
Me:Though i study [a bit closer]. Too old for me? thought we had already been through that one
HER:That My dear chat mate depends on what you are looking from me..
Me: I'm just enjoying our convo for now
HER: Then age isn't an issue
Me: I see no problem witht meeting in future if we keep getting on well
Her: My 15 yr old daughter may contest that lol
Conversaton fizzled out a bit then, i said she was prepared to meet 26yr old, and she said her daughter reminded her he was closer to age to her daughter. She had to go few texts after. But yeah a few tests in there, and i can't read her at all. If i'm honest i would like to meet her, but something more casual, not sure that seems to be what she's after, what do you make of that guys? Anyone who is able to help from that is a legend, really appreciate it! She's openly sexual, but i'm not quite sure what she's after and this is from pof btw. Also good ways to escalate here? Also i miss out parts of conversation where it's more intellectual convo, bits that aren't worth putting here as no one benefits from it!