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Author:  henning [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 5:02 am ]
Post subject:  FB message from a girl I know
I used to know this girl a year back or so, we liked each other but we both drifted apart. She contacts me through a rogue/fake fb acct (i know its her. just different name and photo) pretending to be some random girl and asks if i am in a relationship. How do i answer this and sound alpha at the same time? i do like her, dont need the games I know that, but wanna play it off i guess,lol.

I was thinking of saying "nah, don't really want a relationship right now, content being me...blah blah"
Author:  PUA Borna [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 12:40 pm ]
Post subject: 
The best thing to answer is : No

or if you like to tease a little bit: its complicated.. :)

I wouldnt recoumend to play the "game" too much because if she likes you those

games like neg, dhv, cocky funny, tease and so on... will really just waste your

time and lower your chances with her. Because if she already likes you whats the point??

The best way is to just be simple and comfindent. By comfindent i mean being

normal and making a move. Doing what you really want, thats comfidence, not

playing games, hard to get or disinterested. The only way to be alfa is to be

genuine, honest and simple. :D

have funn!
Author:  henning [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 6:45 pm ]
Post subject: 
Thanks for the feedback. Here is what I said

"nah, I've been holding tryouts for the position, no one's made the cut yet."

I think that sounds confident (like Im the pize) and a bit funny. She has another guy on there whom I know through a friend, but Im not friends with him. Anyway, she's probably playing the same game with him, and he's on her wall posting his number, sounding needy, etc, and I'm all scarce about the situation.

I know she will ask for my number and i will say something like "hey hey..easy! i don't give my number to people that damn easy;) I don't even know anything about you" etc

It's great having the knowledge that pau mindset exists, as oppossed to other guys who know nothing about this stuff.

Thanks
Author:  PUA Borna [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 7:32 pm ]
Post subject: 
Listen if she asks you for your number just give it to her!

Dont complicate things. Seduction is easy. The secret is that you dont try too hard

and show her that you would fuck her if she gave you the chance. So you would

fuck her, but its completely ok with you if that doesent happen. You want to go on

a date with her dont deny her the number just so you would look cool.
Author:  henning [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 8:00 pm ]
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Right. But the thing is, i know this girl is pretending to be someone else. She created this fake fb to contact me cause we had some drama/issues in the past and I cut ties,blocked HER fb page, but I would love the chance with her again. I know there is something there still. So basically here she is months later on a fake fb getting info on me...etc? And i dont know how to OR how long to play it off before saying "hey...I know it's you, cut the crap lol whats up.."

Anyway, as far as the current messages go, she replied "really? what are you looking for? do kids freak you out? Btw, i like how you worded that lol"

She doesnt have kids so why mention that, unless shes trying hard to make it seem like its not her. Do I make suttle comments like "hey Im kinda interested in a girl I used to know, sorry" just to give her a hint?
Author:  PUA Borna [ Sat Jul 21, 2012 8:06 pm ]
Post subject: 
If there was drama before why put up more drama now? Be simple, tell her right

away you know who she is. You want to go out with her. Tell her that youre not

sold on the idea of being with her but that youre definetley interested in seeing

where it goes.

Why wait? If you wait in the best case youll end up with her later in the worst case

its just gonna play itself out or turn into a new drama. If you can make out with

her this week why play hard to get for the next 2 weeks?
Author:  henning [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 3:09 am ]
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UPDATE

We ran into each other this weekend. She's the one who actually walked up to me and says "..I didnt think you'd say hi to me, so im making the approach" :) It was a great feeling, we just small talked then she says she gets off at 3 if i wanted to hang out etc. Mentioned that she's dated a few guys but they are assholes, and shes currently single (ioi?) we hugged before she left, the hug lasted 30 seconds and she let out a 'omg what a relief" kinda breathe :)

Anyway, I'm still taking that step back to see how she really feels, i don't want to be all over her and emailing her left and right. Now we still talk on her fake fb page, she confessed it was her,lol, she didnt know how else to get to me. She made a comment on her page today...more of a peom or something.
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"Still your picture by my bed, still the one I want instead. But I can't find the way to say, come back. You make up what I lack, my pride has left me all alone...It's getting so cold. I'm closing the windows to stay warm, there's a chill in my soul since you've been gone. The silence is louder than any thunder, taking me under. Oh, I'm staying home today. Gonna hide away. Cause it feels, like, rain. ♥'
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I thought about asking her if she wanted to go hang out this weekend, see what happens.
I'm just stumped as to why she doesnt just tell me she misses me, maybe wants me...whatever. its like she's waiting for me to make the initial move. what to say, what to do?
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