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Author:  justinwa [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 12:55 am ]
Post subject:  Do you think this was a good POF message?
Hey Mariah, you seem like a girl I could feel comfortable with. I get a pretty chill vibe from you. I love your style. You look like you workout and your clothes look good on you. I like that classy black dress you have in one of your photos. I think black is sexy, that's why I got a black truck. ;) Anyways, I'd love to know more about you. Message me back soon.

-Justin



Usually my messages are one-liners like hey what's up or some comment. I took my time this one and tried to build rapport by building comfort and setting a chill tone. I also thought I flirted a bit with the truck remark and the winky face. Finally, I concluded with a call to action requesting that she write me back.

I've messaged this girl a couple of times before, but there was no response in the past. I think I've messaged her a total of three times, each about a month apart.
Author:  detox75 [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 1:37 am ]
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you are unilaterally building rapport?

Talk more about their profile then their pictures, also one liners dont work well online.
Author:  Oldskool8726 [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:28 am ]
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I tend to stay away from all the' i like this on you, i like that, your hair looks nice, you seem pretty' kind of shit..

i tend to stick to a rule of thumb, 1 comment on their profile, 1 neg and a little bit of a compliment..
Author:  justinwa [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:48 am ]
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you are unilaterally building rapport?

Talk more about their profile then their pictures, also one liners dont work well online.
Her profile didn't really have much to go off of. This was all she had for the about me section: "Hey my name is Mariah I'm a good ole country girl. I love to hunt, fish, mudride and workout. I'm a nursing student. Taking care of people is my passion. Unlike most girls I'm sweet,funny,smart outgoing and adorable:) If u want to know more just ask."

These were here interests she listed:

Hunting fishing mudriding
working out

How would you open or start a conversation with her? I know that sounds like a dumb question but none of my attempts in the past with girls like this ever work.
Author:  justinwa [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:49 am ]
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I tend to stay away from all the' i like this on you, i like that, your hair looks nice, you seem pretty' kind of shit..

i tend to stick to a rule of thumb, 1 comment on their profile, 1 neg and a little bit of a compliment..
That seems like a good rule of thumb to me.
Author:  Oldskool8726 [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 5:04 am ]
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I tend to stay away from all the' i like this on you, i like that, your hair looks nice, you seem pretty' kind of shit..

i tend to stick to a rule of thumb, 1 comment on their profile, 1 neg and a little bit of a compliment..
That seems like a good rule of thumb to me.
Send me a inbox Justin and i can send you a few openers.
Author:  detox75 [ Mon Jun 04, 2012 6:07 am ]
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1 comment on their profile, 1 neg and a little bit of a compliment.
pretty good format, i do that but I also add a qualifier based on their profile. Usually total 5-7 lines for the opener.

If you dont have enough to go on based on their profile use their interests section as well.
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