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Author:  enigma_7 [ Mon May 21, 2012 11:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Facebook Pickup

Hey guys,
I could do with some advice. I met this super cute girl in a bar about 2 weeks ago. We chatted whilst she poured drinks and she eventually gave me her facebook. Anyway about a week ago I messaged her asking if she fancied grabbing a few drinks sometime. However I've had no reply and I know she has seen it! So what should I do? Just leave it and give up on her or write her another message? If so, what should I write back because I dont want to appear needy etc?

Thanks guys!

Author:  TheSeagull [ Tue May 22, 2012 12:18 am ]
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I think you waited too long. Unless you had amazing rapport and you had given her the blast of a lifetime, 1 week between interactions seems too long to me.
She probably forgot and had time to realize "what should I do? go out with this stranger? why did I even give him my FB?"

plus, you were not direct "sometime - some drinks"..next time try and say "I am going to X place at Y time - wanna join me?"

no big deal.. learn from this and next time, be faster in pinging back :wink:

Author:  Crypto [ Tue May 22, 2012 4:42 pm ]
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If she is your friend on FB I would suggest tossing out a few status updates that show an exciting lifestyle and a sense of humor!

Today throw this up there: is Homy…I’m guessing 99% of you little perverts misread that didn’t you!?

Tomorrow: The early bird get's the worm, but the second mouse get's the cheese!!!

Then wait and see if she is liking/commenting on your status. If she does, then there may be some interest but she is uneasy about meeting you. Wait a day and then throw another update on there:

There was a spider in my bathtub so I got a tissue and very carefully burned the house down...

Then on a Friday/Saturday night go with: I like to use my outside voice during orgasms. :)

If she likes then you drop her a message. FB PM her - "Dont be hogging all the likes little lady!"

Good luck...Peace...

Author:  JSmooth [ Tue May 22, 2012 6:24 pm ]
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I think you waited too long. Unless you had amazing rapport and you had given her the blast of a lifetime, 1 week between interactions seems too long to me.
She probably forgot and had time to realize "what should I do? go out with this stranger? why did I even give him my FB?"

plus, you were not direct "sometime - some drinks"..next time try and say "I am going to X place at Y time - wanna join me?"

no big deal.. learn from this and next time, be faster in pinging back :wink:
Facebook is a real shitty contact method and 2 you waited too long to message her. Move on. If she really wanted to talk to you again you'd have her phone number. Next!

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