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| Author: | mrjericho [ Sat May 19, 2012 2:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Crash and Burn! Recoverable? |
HB8.5, pof, last night contacts me: Last night: HB8.5: Interesting! *4 pics attached* Me: Interested! This morning: Me: Hi, I'm cj. I like that you are a teacher. I have 2 teachers in my family (retired). I remember helping my mother grade papers in the evening when I was a kid. I also remember nights she cried in frustration. I understand how important and underappreciated teachers are in our society. I'm curious, how many love notes do you get from your students? Looking forward to hearing back from you. Have a great weekend. My best reply was a simple "Hello" and leave it at that...too late for that. ****!!! She's been on a few times but no reply. What's the best recovery if she doesn't reply today/tonight? |
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| Author: | mrjericho [ Sat May 19, 2012 3:08 pm ] |
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Crashed and burned even worse just now.....sent the following when I saw her online: Me: Not the talkative type? Good. I don't like emails either. XXX-XXX-XXXX is my number. Have a great weekend. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Sat May 19, 2012 5:24 pm ] |
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Let this one go, dont check her profile and dont message her! Try again in a few months after she has forgotten about you and open her again. Gotta get them laughing almost immediately...Good luck! Peace... |
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| Author: | chikin pickle [ Sat May 19, 2012 6:06 pm ] |
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I'm reminded of a quote from mystery that has done wonders for me. "Don't bother getting good at fixing things once you're in the damage zone. It is far easier to simply attract a new woman." |
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| Author: | mrjericho [ Sat May 19, 2012 6:13 pm ] |
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Noted. Thanks. |
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| Author: | gingerdactyl [ Sat May 19, 2012 11:13 pm ] |
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This looks like a problem I was having a few months ago when I first started on the online dating scene. My responses tended to be really long in comparison to what I was getting back from the girls. I'm just a naturally verbose writer. Not so much when I talk, but that's a different story. My goal was to open up and try and get conversation going, and hopefully get her to write back with similar length. It didn't get me the results I wanted. Make them laugh early. If you can give them grief over small things in their profiles or their responses back to you, do it. Keep it short. Keep it charming. Make it fun for them. Make them want more. Make a fake time constraint, and tell them that you've already established that the two of you are witty, funny, intelligent, attractive, whatever, so she should text you at 555-1293. You basically gave her a conversation right off the bat. And from what I've seen that's not viable. You can do more conversation stuff when you get into texting her. My successes have been when I've just made a good impression and then escalated into offline communication. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Sun May 20, 2012 6:57 pm ] |
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Remember that roughly 40-50% of these girls online are going to Flake on you so don't let that get you down. Keep pushing yourself.... Peace... |
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