She doesn't accept messages. I’m in college and there’s a girl who’s been interested in me since last February (so a little over a year now). Every time we see each other, which is about every few weeks, she sends me a signal that makes it obvious that she’s interested in me. We haven’t said a word to each other. I just check her out when I walk by her and she knows I’m checking her out. We also haven’t seen each other in a few months.

We have one mutual friend on facebook. The only option I have is to poke her or add her as a friend (she doesn’t allow messages from people who aren’t her friends). If I poke her on facebook, would that be considered creepy or would it be normal? Would adding her as a friend be creepy? If I have to choose between poking or adding her as a friend (I definitely want to contact her), which one should I do? I’m hoping that she sends a message back to me so we can talk.

I want to emphasize that I don’t know if I’ll ever see this girl again, so facebook is my best option currently.

Also, if it matters, I know that her ideal type of guys are tall white males with dark hair (she’s native American), and I fit that exact description.

She doesn't accept messages. I’m in college and there’s a girl who’s been interested in me since last February (so a little over a year now). Every time we see each other, which is about every few weeks, she sends me a signal that makes it obvious that she’s interested in me. We haven’t said a word to each other. I just check her out when I walk by her and she knows I’m checking her out. We also haven’t seen each other in a few months.

We have one mutual friend on facebook. The only option I have is to poke her or add her as a friend (she doesn’t allow messages from people who aren’t her friends). If I poke her on facebook, would that be considered creepy or would it be normal? Would adding her as a friend be creepy? If I have to choose between poking or adding her as a friend (I definitely want to contact her), which one should I do? I’m hoping that she sends a message back to me so we can talk.

I want to emphasize that I don’t know if I’ll ever see this girl again, so facebook is my best option currently.

Also, if it matters, I know that her ideal type of guys are tall white males with dark hair (she’s native American), and I fit that exact description.

Reach down, and see if there are two balls there - then if you find them - squeeze.

Dude, she's interested in you for OVER A YEAR and you've made no move? Try not to think of the other guys who fucked her while you were playing it cool.

Fucking poke her, friend her - whatever.... get the digits, if it's not too late... Damn.

RR