Well assuming that a few messages have been exchanged I would number close man... looks like she is talking about her personal life and you have built some attraction already.
just say...
"Do you text? I kinda have a texting addiction... Its quite sad actually, I looked up every insurance plan, and the only cures known are cut off fingertips, or cut off cell service, but both are too severe a cure
"this is going to show your interest so remember to make your first text kinda a neg or at least cocky. Something like...
"so is **username** your real name or your Bar name?
~ John"
she will 90% of the time reply with
"no lol my Bar name is *barname* but my real name is *realname* ...blahblahblahblahblah... is John your real name or your bar name?"
then just shoot back "No John is my bar name... I would never give my real name out to a stranger I met online lol!"
Hope this helps and let me know your results
Piece and peace dude!