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Author:  martiong [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:04 pm ]
Post subject:  FB-message doesn't answer, should I call?

I met a girl on saturday, but unfortunately we both had to go, so I didn't the chance to get her number. But there was something, as she insisted I go with her to the club. Now I approached her on FB, referring to a joke she had made on saturday.
She anwsered pretty quickly, asking how I was doing etc.
I then tried something I had read here, asking her to tell me 3 reasons that would get me to want to know her more. Unfortunately she hasn't responded yet (almost 3 days).

A friend of mine (and hers) gave me her number, should I call her? and would I address the topic that she didn't answer?

Thanks

[fast answers would be great, since I'm leaving on friday for two weeks]

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 1:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: FB-message doesn't answer, should I call?

Quote:
A friend of mine (and hers) gave me her number, should I call her? and would I address the topic that she didn't answer?
[fast answers would be great, since I'm leaving on friday for two weeks]
NO! do not call. she does not know you have her number! leave it alone til you return!

If this "friend" is a girl, have HER put a bug in this girls ear! Girls love that shit!

Game lots of girls while gone!

If no reply by your return, leave just 1 more FB message; "Chicken! LOL :-)"

Hope this helps Bro

Author:  SmoothOp [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 4:15 pm ]
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Give us your whole facebook messaging history. Problem with being new and using material like you did is that sometmes it's really out of conversation context and seems un-natural. I had this problem a long time ago and my conversations were rediculous. I lost many girls due to just being wierd with material. For it to work well, the conversation has to progress smoothly and shit needs flow.

Above poster had great idea. Just don't overdue the friend thing. You may come off as desperate.

Author:  martiong [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 5:21 pm ]
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thanks for the advice, she now actually answered (but not in the way I hoped, I apparently pissed of the mutual friend without knowing…). her answer (summarized): I need to tell her 3 reasons
I doubt I'll be able to turn this one around, but @SmoothOP, how did you change it?

thanks for the previous fast responses

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