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| Author: | henning [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 6:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to re-approach online dating/getting life back together? |
This is a really personal, but I need the advice. After all, imo pua is more than "just girls" it's about building a life, correct? I'm trying to rebuild mine and meet women online at the same time. It shouldnt be an option, I'm well aware I need to put myself first, but what's the harm in trying to talk to a girl and see where it goes? What happened was, I lost everything last year because I lost my job. I had a house, a truck. and a life that I never knew I even had until I look back on it now. I made a lot of stupid moves! I guess my ex gf walking out on me as well didnt help my confidence level, and that was 4 years after a devestating divorce as well. I'm to the point where i ask myself "when will I ever win?" But i need to make the right choices "to win" I'm staying with a buddy right now working a full-time job, trying to save up for a car and get back on my feet. How would I approach this detail in profiles? Women like honesty and that's what I am. My profile even says I have no car, that may be a turn off. It's not just being without a vehicle. My credit is shit, no college, just an average mid-lower-class guy. I've had a very stressful year and I don't want to scare women away with the past? I'm not a loser, I just made stupid moves and fell into a hole, and slowly crawling out of it. I'm a bit of a nerd, I'll admit that. never been the alpha type or the leader of the pack. Even re-reading this, i can see how much I am putting myself down, and that's not the answer. I'm 34 and don't want to keep waiting until next week, or next month to meet someone because of the position I am in. Anyone who's ever been down on their luck, I could really use a word or two. Thanks for your time Long time newbie, but never giving up.... Mike |
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| Author: | GKS [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 7:13 am ] |
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You should check out the video from Keys to VIP show, the episode of Cobra Commander. This guy, Phil, has literally nothing. Not got looking, no car, basically live off a friend's couch, no fancy clothes. He pulled sick game. What is the point I'm trying to make? Life isn't fair, life is a bitch, things happen. Girls know that. What is important is your frame and your attitude toward life and how you handle it. They want a guy who when shits happen, has what it takes to stand up for them rather than whine about it. Work on your inner game. Follow David Deangelo rule of thumb, when you find yourself making excuses, just go ahead and do it. As for your online profile, be honest about it. Make humorous about your situation, be positive. EX: I decided to scrap my car to save the earth, those happy feet penguins are too cute! |
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| Author: | Theodiscus [ Mon Mar 26, 2012 7:55 am ] |
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There is no need to mention these downfalls on your online profile, it is better you do not. When the question does come up, shit happens and you are still confident in yourself, that is all that matters. |
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| Author: | henning [ Tue Mar 27, 2012 4:36 am ] |
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thanks for the feedback. I am the type who falls down a lot, but always gets back up. |
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