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Author:  AFC_Suave [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 9:38 pm ]
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Whatup players

I'm a really picky guy, especially when it comes to POF. My ideal woman is someone who has a lot of culture, and preferably has lived in a few different countries like I have. She is fashionable, classy, elegant but not a stuck up high maintenance materialistic b*tch.

I believe in genuinely complimenting their style rather than their looks. So I've come up with a simple opener that I use when I do direct approaches.

How could I improve this opener, and how could I mix this with a little bit of Cocky and Funny? Personally I think I should add a bit more comedy. I think I could shorten it a bit more too.

The success rate is like 70%:

"Ciao,

I know this is gonna sound super random, but I just noticed your profile and I had
to tell you that you have an incredible sense of style - compared to a lot of the
women that I've seen on here. It's like a mixture of classiness and elegance, with a
hint of casualness, which still makes you seem quite easy going, rather than a high
maintenance materialistic girl - btw if you are one of those girl, I'm already gonna have to break up with you. ;)

But beauty is common though...so I want to see how cool and interesting you really are as a person.

Tell me about something that you've never tried before, and you would love to try.

-AFC_Suave"
Author:  motownsoul [ Sat Jan 28, 2012 11:49 pm ]
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Its not a bad opener....I've done some that are similar....where you somewhat compliment their appearance but state beauty is common, or looks only go so far, etc....then ask for them to explain themselves in a different light so you can see how they are separate from other females out there..........Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt....just depends on the female really....I've noticed that at least in my area, the HB9's and HB10's aren't very responsive to openers such as these though...Thats just me though...I'm not the most physically attractive guy..also I don't have a picture on most of my profiles to begin with...but like I said, there is still success with these types of openers..just depends on the girl
Author:  AFC_Suave [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:14 pm ]
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I know what you mean dude. Honestly, I gotta keep it shorter I think. Direct works better in my opinion...but as you said, it depends on this girl. Used this a month ago on a pretty hot girl - it worked and we dated for a whole month. now I'm back to the game. I guess this opener is gonna attract specifically the girls that have the personalities I'm looking fore. and it's rare to find one like this on POF
Author:  Rosso [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:31 pm ]
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Trialled this a bit today combining it with Taohcke's (sp?) approach. Only sent out two messages but I am the proud owner of two numbers.

Good stuff!
Author:  AFC_Suave [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:45 pm ]
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Trialled this a bit today combining it with Taohcke's (sp?) approach. Only sent out two messages but I am the proud owner of two numbers.

Good stuff!
Good stuff man.Show me how the opener turned out. What's Taohcke's approach anyway ?
Author:  motownsoul [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:05 pm ]
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Good stuff...the girls are definitely out there...

And Rosso, paste your conversation! Let everyone see how it works
Author:  Rosso [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:52 pm ]
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Trying now, keeps telling me I'm trying to post a URL when I'm not :S Will try and sort.

EDIT: Still no joy, tried literally everything and read it over. Has no URLs, deleted all of the times, usernames, nothing. Will PM a mod and get it up asap.
Author:  papichulo818 [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:24 am ]
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Too much, keep it short. A sentence or two at best.

Qualifying a girl before she's even said a word with you is retarded, i dont care what you've read. Unless, of course, she's very physically attracted to you.
Author:  Rosso [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 4:01 pm ]
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Too much, keep it short. A sentence or two at best.

Qualifying a girl before she's even said a word with you is retarded, i dont care what you've read. Unless, of course, she's very physically attracted to you.
Can't agree, women on there see the same shit over and over. Messages I have had back:
Quote:
Hey nice message!! Makes a difference from the usual 'hi hows u' or just 'hi' which i ignore as lack of effort is not attractive! Lol.
I am definitely not materialistic!
Something I want to try....
Ive always wanted to go zorbing or to one of them sky diving simulator wind machines they look hilarious lol i love stuff like that!!

1/30/2012 2:27:18 PM
Hi
That was a refreshing message, normally get appraoched with 'oh your fit' or something equally as unique lol.
I am laid back and easy going - probs why I get walked over, need to toughen up.
Like your shirt in your piccie btw :)

oooohhhh I want to skydive and really want to go in a hot air balloon, you?
x
Little effort goes a long way!
Author:  AFC_Suave [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 2:42 am ]
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Nice to see that it's working for you dude haha.
I use this all the time at daygame...and it's gold...but haven't had a lot of success with it on POF lately.
Author:  piercemasters [ Mon Feb 06, 2012 1:52 pm ]
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Nice opener, very nice.

It needs something concrete that shows that you've actually read her profile, and it also needs a question, a genuine question (can be funny/cocky) that is specific to her profile.

That would take your response rate close to 100%.

Pierce
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