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| Author: | thevibe [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 10:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | im such a loser on facebook |
im thinking of just getting rid of my facebook but ill probably just end up making one again and failing again i rarely go on cause its just not fun for me no one talks to me or pays attention and i have very little friends if i wrote im going to jump of a building today on my wall no one would notice it i feel like im the creepy guy on facebook if i comment someones picture i think there going to act why is he talking to me Delete and when i message someone i have nothing to talk about or they never reply or they just dont want to talk to me kinda like when i try talking to some people in real life i dont post picture cause i gained weight and i hate how i come out in pictures but im working on losing weight and when i get back in shape ill post more pictures so what should i start doing and changin i startid pua to get better socially and talking to people how should i start using facebook and acting on it what should i be doing posting saying and writing how do you guys use facebook what do u do on it |
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| Author: | gameon0303 [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 11:26 pm ] |
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In all honesty it sounds like the best thing you can do is delete your fb. Facebook is not the issue here; your image of yourself, your confidence and lifestyle are the issues. Firstly; get off the computer and do stuff, even if on your own... go do stuff, hobbies and interests, read books, read current affairs, learn an instrument, start a sport etc etc... this will all give you stuff to talk about online and in real life. Other than that, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Instead of wasting time moaning about the issues in your life; do something about them! People don't respect what you say? Fuck them, value your opinion and time! Once you learn to value and respect yourself, other people will as well. Give yourself something to value yourself on by improving your social skills and being an interesting person. If you want to keep your facebook then just be yourself on it, don't post attention seeking comments or statuses... I only put statuses that are necessary (i.e. anyone know where/what/when .... is/ kind of thing) or something that I think is funny but that's also due to me being lazy and not having much time for fb. Other than that, don't let your insecurities show in your messages. If you seem confident in your wording, people may respect your posts more... google how to portray confidence in the way you word things and you should get some good info come up. |
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| Author: | dlightmen [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 11:29 pm ] |
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I'm just guessing here; as I could be wrong. You might need to work on making friends in real life. I have about 144 friends, but could put up anything and get responses. If for no other reason to not let me sink and look like I have none. I just use facebook to keep in touch with old friends and only share it with a woman I might have met online and am planning to date. You just need to meet more people and have better friends. I don't think it's a facebook issue. Good luck. 
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| Author: | needlz [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 11:51 pm ] |
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I second these guys, the issue is clearly not Facebook or PUA it's your self image. Work on making yourself a better person and the rest will just come naturally. Just set your mind on it and you can achieve it. |
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| Author: | kenstheman01 [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 11:58 pm ] |
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My opinion on facebook. I view it as a need these days. Every girl meet always adds me on facebook. It lets them into your life. Does he have friends? What's his hobbies? Is he seeing some one? How many girls does he talk to? If done right facebook can only make you look good. Go out and start meeting people, have a good time. I also use it to actually communicate with my friends, and post funny shit. |
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| Author: | VFresh21 [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:30 am ] |
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Man the whole point of Facebook is to post whatever you feel like. Add a comment to a photo your interested in. Genuinely share your personality with the world. If your afraid to show it youll miss out on other people with common interests contacting you. Because how would they ever know you have common interests if you never post anything. Don't be afraid or nervous when it comes to Facebook either. It's there for fun and to connect with people. When your on it just think of those two things (fun and connecting with people) and just trust your feelings and dont second guess yourself. |
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| Author: | thevibe [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:19 am ] |
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you guys are right im going to start going out more and building my confidence to and if someone on facebook doesnt like me who cares |
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| Author: | gameon0303 [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 6:14 pm ] |
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Good man! Great attitude to have... as in my signature "Be who you are and say what you feel; because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind" - Dr Seuss |
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