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Author:  FlySheep [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 8:11 am ]
Post subject:  Can't get the date
So I was talking to 3 different gals on OKC and we're exchanging messages every other day. When I suggested we meet, they all stopped messaging back. What am I doing wrong? Here's some samples of what I wrote to ask them out

" You seem like someone fun talk to, want to get a cup of coffee after work sometime this week?" :)

"Hey what are you doing this weekend? I'm going to be in your area Saturday for a work event but plan on leaving early. Got any plans? Let me know
c: cell number

"haha, I like your style :) Let's hang out this weekend. I"ll introduce you to that place we've been talking about"
Author:  jpow1981 [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 4:01 pm ]
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Based on my personal experience, I find that women are most likely to respond positively when you ask for numbers along with a plausible excuse for not wanting to keep emailing.

I've also come to believe that women are most likely to give out their number on the second or third email, and then again after the 10th. You will also get an idea of who is online to meet people, and who is online to kill time much earlier if you ask for the number as soon as you've established some interest.

Good luck!
Author:  FlySheep [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 10:07 pm ]
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I guess only thing left at this point is to stir up a reaction in some playful way huh?
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 12:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't get the date
Quote:
So I was talking to 3 different gals on OKC and we're exchanging messages every other day. When I suggested we meet, they all stopped messaging back. What am I doing wrong? Here's some samples of what I wrote to ask them out

" You seem like someone fun talk to, want to get a cup of coffee after work sometime this week?" :)

"Hey what are you doing this weekend? I'm going to be in your area Saturday for a work event but plan on leaving early. Got any plans? Let me know
c: cell number

"haha, I like your style :) Let's hang out this weekend. I"ll introduce you to that place we've been talking about"
See the bold part? That is your problem. You take to dam long to ask them out. You should be sending no more than 10 messages 15 at most before asking her out. Sending messages for days then asking her out won't lead to anything but sending messages back and forth.
Author:  FlySheep [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 12:41 am ]
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It was right about ten messages, but immediate responses were not happening which is why it spanded more than a week of slow messaging.......
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 3:32 am ]
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If they are not replying back that quickly, ie same day, more than likely they are not that interested in you. You could tease them on their slow reply and take it from there. If they don't reply faster or don't say they don't want to meet (ie they give some bs reason) they are not interested. Basically you should test them.
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