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Author:  dannyboy [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 1:30 am ]
Post subject:  My hairdresser is on pof
So this girl has cut my hair as recently as last week and one other time before that. We pretty much chatted the whole time during each cut with a little bit of flirting. I have just found her on plenty of fish. She is definitely a girl that I'd be interested in. What advice would you guys give regarding how or whether I should send her a message?
Author:  Sly_Wolf [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:30 pm ]
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I would pick her up face to face. It might be awkward if you message her. Next time you go just make her laugh, talk about the same interests (now that you know what they are you have the upper hand and she'll be excited you have so much in common). After you initiate a good vibe, tell her you'd like to get to know her better and that you really enjoyed talking to her ,etc. or close however you want, just do it in person.
Author:  Brawndo [ Sat Jan 14, 2012 6:14 am ]
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I would take what's on her profile and use that to your advantage...her likes/dislikes, etc.
If you said "hey i saw you on pof..." that would give her a creepy vibe like you were looking for her.
Author:  dannyboy [ Sat Jan 14, 2012 12:23 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice guys. I did briefly consider messaging her on pof but then my brain kicked into gear and I realised that would be pretty creepy.

I'll just wait until I next need a haircut and just hope that some other guy hasn't snapped her up before then! I like the idea of steering the conversation towards things that she has said she likes in her profile. I'm not going to pretend to like some of the things she is interested in if I'm not, but we can still have a fun conversation anyway. If it all goes well, I will make sure I get a number close.
Author:  Sly_Wolf [ Sat Jan 14, 2012 6:01 pm ]
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When you get your next haircut, just bring up the topics she likes naturally. Make her laugh as well, use a dhv story somewhere for the sake of conversation and she will think you are a great catch. After that closing will be easy. Girls get really excited and sometimes clingy when they find a guy they have so much in common with. You have a big advantage here.
Author:  Entourages [ Sat Jan 14, 2012 6:53 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice guys. I did briefly consider messaging her on pof but then my brain kicked into gear and I realised that would be pretty creepy.

I'll just wait until I next need a haircut and just hope that some other guy hasn't snapped her up before then! I like the idea of steering the conversation towards things that she has said she likes in her profile. I'm not going to pretend to like some of the things she is interested in if I'm not, but we can still have a fun conversation anyway. If it all goes well, I will make sure I get a number close.
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You can even joke about some things she likes and disqualify her.

Lets say she loves dogs, you can talk about pets and shit and be like, I would actually kill myself if I had a dog laugh, and then tell a story of how you were chased by a dog and since then you decided cats are better than dogs. Point is cats are the shittiest animals in the world. But you can make it a cute banter if you know she loves dogs.
Author:  dannyboy [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 1:38 pm ]
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Well among other things, she has said on her profile that she has a puppy, likes horse-riding and cheesy music. So I will try to naturally incorporate these topics into our conversation, especially as I quite like cheesy wedding music as well!

If we start talking about pets for example, I can tell her about how I have a cat that actually chases dogs (which is true) and how it would totally kick her puppy's ass!

I'm conscious not to put too much pressure on what happens with this girl as I will always be better when I'm in a relaxed state of mind. Thanks once again for the advice guys. I will keep you posted with how things turn out.
Author:  kze [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 1:06 am ]
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id go with, so i saw your profile on pof the other night, we should grab a coffee sometime ( or do something that is on her profile interests.) she will most likely search you up on pof aswell so i would recomend changing a few things to coincide with hers
Author:  Entourages [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 1:26 am ]
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id go with, so i saw your profile on pof the other night, we should grab a coffee sometime ( or do something that is on her profile interests.) she will most likely search you up on pof aswell so i would recomend changing a few things to coincide with hers
I wouldn't at all, that is 100% AFC and fake. Why should you change who you are for one girl.

Also don't mention it at all. Sorry bro I disagree with you 95%, definitely mention it in light convo (her interests not that you stalk her page). Never ever ever!!!! change yourself for a person. You are then fake and not who you are and she will notice and you will hate yourself for not ebing who you are. Lets say you get married, and you despise something, like hate it to death, but she loves it and thinks you do... well guess what you now gotta live with it!

Never change for someone be confident in who you are and funny about your indifferences.
Author:  dannyboy [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 8:39 pm ]
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Sorry kze, but I don't agree with your advice. Firstly, I don't intend on bringing up the subject of pof. I feel that it's unnecessary and it might not be something she wants to discuss in front of her co-workers.

I will never change my interests to coincide with any girl. There are so many reasons why you shouldn't do this, that it's hard to know where to start! People are different, they like and dislike different things. I'm not looking for someone who likes all the same stuff as me and I'm sure she feels the same way. Also, I don't want to achieve some fake rapport with her by pretending to like something. There is no way that I would be able to keep the lie up and she would probably see through it pretty soon.

Being comfortable with who you are is extremely important when it comes to success with women so don't change who you are for anyone!
Author:  juice man [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 11:14 pm ]
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yo suck up all u can can about her on POF, delete ur profile, go game her,,, u have the upper hand because if u do succeed and she later finds out ur on POF she wid def call u out on that and prob turn ugly... just saying bro!
Author:  Entourages [ Tue Jan 17, 2012 11:47 pm ]
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Again dont do something stupid and change yourself or actions... What is with these answers about being something your not. If she finds out you have an account you say you made it to meet some awesome fucking chicks. Make it nothing important. Just use it to your advantage, if she says oh you have a phish account you agree give some reason (emotional if needed) and then she will relate, cause she clearly has one.

So yea stop giving these answers about changig yourself or what you are doing it is pointless and just beta beta BETA!
Author:  dannyboy [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 6:57 pm ]
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Yeah, I completely agree with raphael again. How the hell would her finding out that I'm on pof turn ugly?
Author:  kze [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 11:29 pm ]
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yo suck up all u can can about her on POF, delete ur profile, go game her,,, u have the upper hand because if u do succeed and she later finds out ur on POF she wid def call u out on that and prob turn ugly... just saying bro!
100% vouch, get off of those dating websites and go do real game. unless you open her on pof by saying something like hey you look familiar ( not that but you now what i mean)

as for the dont change yourself, what do you think pua is. changing almsot everything about yourself because its NOT WORKING
and youre not changing yourself for a person. youre changing a profile for a person. get in fuck it and leave. who cares if it comes up later youre already getting you dick wet
Author:  kze [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 11:33 pm ]
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if she says oh you have a phish account you agree give some reason (emotional if needed) and then she will relate, cause she clearly has one.
complete bull,
you say " so what. so do you" dont go for her acceptance and give a crappy emotional, show you dont give a crap, why should you be seeking rapport from her. break it and show you dont give a crap
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