A little backstory: Hit up this girl, # closed in about 6 emails. Haven't talked yet, but have texted and continued to email. Trying not to fall into the LJBF zone! She's an HB7
Me:ok, are you awake, or did you roll on your phone again?
HB:No I am awake. I just got an e-mail. I had this totally off the wall message! I just hit delete!
Me:Ahhh...the 'off the wall' message. I'm glad I'm not a female. lol!
HB:It sucks sometimes!
Me:C'mon, give me a taste....what was the worst message you ever received? lol
HB:I hate this language but I got a very long message from this guy asking me about how my certain body parts look and feel and that if I would "poop" on him during sex he would be my slave and cook, clean, and anything I wanted.... He wanted to be taken full advantage of and humiliated .... Ok ... Psycho???
Me:OK....HELLO?!?! When will these sick individuals learn?! What a loser. I guess due to this being a FREE site, it lends itself to attracting these cretins. It is those asshats(sorry) that make it hard for guys lie me....
HB:Oh I know, I am so careful who I talk to. There are some real sick pervs out there. Just because I am single, doesn't make me desperate lol
Me:So what advice would you give me, hmmm?
HB:Be friendly but be yourself. Leave the vulgar talk for later haha
Me:Wow...you're already talking about a later. I'm not THAT easy.
HB:Ewww ... I was giving you general advice! There will eventually be a later with someone!
Me:In the interests of 100% disclosure, I am rather flirty. So if that is something that bothers you, we probably won't get along. It's a give and take, actually...but not for everyone.
HB:Oh no once I am comfortable .... I am exactly the same way. Its all in how you do it
Me:It IS all in how you do it. You just have to be open to the possibility. It's is ALL about emotional tension....
HB:Emotional tension!
Me:e.g. sexual tension..just saying.
HB:Heehee something like that
Me:I'm not talking physical...purely emotional, but with a twist. get your mind out of the gutter! lol
HB:Sure, like you didn't provoke my trip there
Me:We only go where we want to go...I merely alluded.
HB:
Me: What was the wink for...hmmmm?
HB: Wherever it takes your mind...
Me:And here I was under the impression you were a nice girl...
HB:I am .... Maybe a wink will take you to a secluded beach so you get warmed up!
Me:You want to take me to a secluded beach? lol
HB:Oh gee .... Im digging a much bigger hole each time
The conversation ended there...we have a date next friday night. I keep reading the email chat and wondering if I could have pushed the envelope more in certain spots, and how I can jumpstart the escalation on the date, based on the clues in her email replies...
I appreciate any and all comments, suggestions, and ideas....thanks!
~Sean