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Author:  StarOnTheUpRise [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 8:58 am ]
Post subject:  Did I pass her Test or Not... Honest Opinions...
Here's two different Conversations with her

Me: (I said something about her being blonde)
Her: I'm as dumb as you wanna think, but let me tell you one thing; I only pay for about 2,500 tution. The rest is paid for by Scholarships. Suck on that one...
Me: I was just fucking with ya... Didn't think you were that sensitive :P
Her: I'm not lol
Her: Just putting my foot down
Me: Would it help if i told you you have beautiful eyes lol..
Her: Did you get that line off the back of a cereal box?
Me: No give me more credit than that it was a Hallmark card :P
Her: lol.. I gotta nap b4 I get ready for the Best buddies thing.
Me: yeah we should nap (it was like 7am in the morning and we both just got home from a staff meeting.)


Her: Lame
Me: Yeah you are, but at least you can admit it. ;)
Her: You're an Ass
Me: Kiss My ass ;)
Her: Real cute
Me: How do you know you haven't seen it yet?
Her: Oh Brother
Me: You're comebacks are getting weaker I thought you could hang with me, but guess I was wrong.
Her: lol
Me: I'll give ya props you did know I had a cute ass without seeing it... That's some talent so Kudos to you.
Her: Whatever lol
Me: Well it's been fun fucking with ya, but I'll let you go so you can get ya job done... Peace
Her: I've been workin... duh Night

I know the first time she let me go first. So made sure I let her go first the 2nd time...

please leave feedback at what I did right and what I need to work on thanks...
Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 10:57 am ]
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You know, I'm starting to feel that some people misunderstand being flirty. I see lots of posts about texts that are very similar to this. It seems like you're taking this as some kind of contest. Like you have to beat her arguments it feels so weird. Or I don't know maybe it's just me but I really don't do this kind of flirting because it can go wrong so easily...She can take it to the wrong way any time, especially since she doesn't see your face(those smilies are useless and I like to avoid them if possible) And also what exactly is your point here with these texts? Where's the sexuality? Where is this whole thing going besides mocking her for showing some "dominance"?
Author:  hackedheartbleed [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 1:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I pass her Test or Not... Honest Opinions...
Quote:
Here's two different Conversations with her

Me: (I said something about her being blonde)
Her: I'm as dumb as you wanna think, but let me tell you one thing; I only pay for about 2,500 tution. The rest is paid for by Scholarships. Suck on that one...
Me: I was just fucking with ya... Didn't think you were that sensitive :P
Her: I'm not lol
Her: Just putting my foot down
Me: Would it help if i told you you have beautiful eyes lol..
Her: Did you get that line off the back of a cereal box?
Me: No give me more credit than that it was a Hallmark card :P
Her: lol.. I gotta nap b4 I get ready for the Best buddies thing.
Me: yeah we should nap (it was like 7am in the morning and we both just got home from a staff meeting.)


Her: Lame
Me: Yeah you are, but at least you can admit it. ;)
Her: You're an Ass
Me: Kiss My ass ;)
Her: Real cute
Me: How do you know you haven't seen it yet?
Her: Oh Brother
Me: You're comebacks are getting weaker I thought you could hang with me, but guess I was wrong.
Her: lol
Me: I'll give ya props you did know I had a cute ass without seeing it... That's some talent so Kudos to you.
Her: Whatever lol
Me: Well it's been fun fucking with ya, but I'll let you go so you can get ya job done... Peace
Her: I've been workin... duh Night

I know the first time she let me go first. So made sure I let her go first the 2nd time...

please leave feedback at what I did right and what I need to work on thanks...
Hey man,

Let me break this down for you:

1st paragraph, you're coming across as too cocky and arrogant. Those behaviours mixed together are seen as unattractive, which is dramatically magnified online because you have no context. Still, she flirts with you but she's clearly not interested in the current conversation.

2nd paragraph is just brutal. "Me: Yeah you are, but at least you can admit it. ;)" that's seen as an insult, in person you could get away with it because it can be seen as cheeky. Online it gets misinterpreted because it's basically just a line of text. You're creating a bigger hole for yourself going down the same road. You still keep being this unattractive combination of cocky and arrogance, her messages are getting shorter which conveys disinterest and your messages are getting longer to her.

Online is much different than in person, clearly because there's no way of conveying that you're just kidding. So it's better to be PLAYFUL and FLIRTY. This means, let's not insult the girl... let's instead be playful and joke about silly things.

Here is an example of a girl I messaged today:
Quote:
ME: "Gingerlicious girl, I love your smile - it's intense and I'm fairly sure if we put it
on some posters it could potentially cure aids

I get 80% profit though, it was my idea after all. Game? :P"

HER: "Cant i get the 80% profit instead?

As im the one in the photo & im ginger so i deserve the most profit ;P.

Oh and i lurrve your profile hehe"

ME: "Ah, a fellow swindler! Very sexy, I like it. I say we skip the photographical
posters curing aids, I don't think the world is ready for that yet. We
should put our devious minds together and go into business. How about
condoms that look like daleks? "Do not IMPREGENATE!""

HER: "Well that would freak me out lol. I used to have nightmares about daleks :( I am so down for being in business together hehe I could see us inventing something interesting ;) so, tell me something about yourself?"
You see the difference? I'm not insulting her. I'm being playful and flirty. I'm also being very silly. People in general do not like to be judged or criticized and as that song goes, "Girls just want to have fun."
Author:  ItsAlwaysOn [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 3:52 pm ]
Post subject: 
SotUR-

welcome to the forums. i mostly agree with the 2 posters above me. what you should be trying to do is stop having a lets-see-who-can-come-up-with-the-cooler-insult pissing contest with girls and just be more fun and playful.

heres the thing. you can figure this stuff out by fucking it up a lot. by being too mean (as david d would say too much cocky, not enough funny) and by losing girls. ive been there. as a matter of fact, ive had conversations with girls exactly like this when i first started. and i got nowhere from this type of interaction and learned. but it took a while. and i had to kinda figure it out myself.

i have some great news, though. you dont have to go through that. first of all, reread and take to heart the advice you'll get in this thread. then immediately start being more fun and playful and stop trying to always have that i'm-cooler-than-you/cocky funny/asshole response when talking to girls. because after all, as the old saying goes, you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. good luck on your journey.
Author:  anonymousdt [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 1:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I pass her Test or Not... Honest Opinions...
For the most part, I agree with the previous posters. This girl is not overly sensitive so you are getting away with being too cocky; this girl can definitely hang. But you could definitely improve on building more comfort and actually having a conversation. So far, nothing of substance has been said; no real connection has been made. See adamtaste's example. That's a nice example of being funny, playful and building comfort. I can tell that if adamtaste asked for her number, he'd likely be successful. But I'm not so sure in your case.

The fact that she initiated the second conversation is good for you. She sees some kind of value in the interaction. Personally, I'd move the conversation closer to the kind of conversation I'd have with friends: something fun, playful, but where I'm actually finding something interesting out about her personality. I'd shy away from cheesy lines like: "so what do you have going for you besides your looks" and I'd also shy away from commenting on her looks.

Last, in reference to the Title of this thread, I don't think she has tested you at all. I think she's just been talking to you and you've been barely keeping her interest with some cocky/funny lines.

My guess is that you're going to have to re-initiate the conversation (just like she did after she ended the first convo). It's really hard to step into your shoes because I have no idea what your profiles are like, etc. But I would probably start with something like: "just bought my lotto ticket. If I win, I'm traveling to the Caribbean to eat fresh mangos. Where would you go?" Or something where you can start finding out about her tastes. After all, you're a valuable guy and you need to make sure this girl meets certain expectations ;)

Quote:
Here's two different Conversations with her

Me: (I said something about her being blonde)
Her: I'm as dumb as you wanna think, but let me tell you one thing; I only pay for about 2,500 tution. The rest is paid for by Scholarships. Suck on that one...
Me: I was just fucking with ya... Didn't think you were that sensitive :P
Her: I'm not lol
Her: Just putting my foot down
Me: Would it help if i told you you have beautiful eyes lol..
Her: Did you get that line off the back of a cereal box?
Me: No give me more credit than that it was a Hallmark card :P
Her: lol.. I gotta nap b4 I get ready for the Best buddies thing.
Me: yeah we should nap (it was like 7am in the morning and we both just got home from a staff meeting.)


Her: Lame
Me: Yeah you are, but at least you can admit it. ;)
Her: You're an Ass
Me: Kiss My ass ;)
Her: Real cute
Me: How do you know you haven't seen it yet?
Her: Oh Brother
Me: You're comebacks are getting weaker I thought you could hang with me, but guess I was wrong.
Her: lol
Me: I'll give ya props you did know I had a cute ass without seeing it... That's some talent so Kudos to you.
Her: Whatever lol
Me: Well it's been fun fucking with ya, but I'll let you go so you can get ya job done... Peace
Her: I've been workin... duh Night

I know the first time she let me go first. So made sure I let her go first the 2nd time...

please leave feedback at what I did right and what I need to work on thanks...
Author:  StarOnTheUpRise [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 1:26 am ]
Post subject: 
Well I've taken thing you guys said and advice and this is my 3rd conversation with this girl... Tell me if I've improved or if I've taken a further step back? Please and Thank You


Me: All joking aside you really are a fun person to talk too. I like your personality and how you just speak your mind and give me shit right back. Usually cute girls have no personality and just rely just on looks. You on the other hand are not like that and it's refreshing... have a good night

Her: Thank you .. You do the same. All my work is finished, but waking everybody for showers and bowling..

Me: Your Welcome tell everybody I said good luck and most of all to have fun..

Her; I wil

Her: Y aren't u alseep

Me: I'm a Vampire :)

Her: But, I'm the lame one goin to see Twlight? Right

Me: Honestly.. I don't know I just keep reading aryicles online... And I just can't
pull myself away from them lol...

Her: haHa.. Own has a Mystery diagnosis show

Me: Really Oprah's channel no thank you :P I'm reading things to improve my life..

Her haha.. This doesn't have anything to do with Oprah.. It's health risk mystery crap ya douche..

Me: Hush...

Her: I would nevet

Her: *never*

Me: lol I see you hurried to correct that b4 I could make fun of you... Smooth

Her: Lil Mj

Me: What?

Her: I sent the wrong text to u.. lol

Me: No Shit.. lol

Her: Shut it

Me: Nevet

Her: Haha

Me:Well I'm gonna try to get some sleep I'll text ya later

Her: Night
Author:  MynameisFisher [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 5:46 pm ]
Post subject: 
Little...very little better. At least you're not freaking her out anymore. But I still don't see where this convo is going and how do you plan on continuing this in order to actually get on a date. But if you do have an actual plan and I just miss your ingenius pattern then please enlighten me ;)
Author:  papichulo818 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:18 am ]
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slow as molasses, not going anywhere

she'll tire of this soon she seems to just be humoring you i dont think she even really cares if you msg her or not at this point


taking 'cock funny' too far where it's just cocky and not funny - girls grow tired of that quick switch your game up get her out
Author:  anonymousdt [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 7:37 am ]
Post subject: 
I have to disagree with the above two posters. I think some comfort is actually being built here. Given the first two convo posts, I think this may have been some necessary damage control to remind her you are a down-to-earth human being. It's not a terrible thing to have those kinds of conversations every so often.

But I will agree that she will tire of this soon. MynameisFisher is right in that it would be tough to continue that convo to get a date. The next convo should have a lot more energy, and at this point it's probably best to push for a number to start texting/calling, or just ask for a date depending on the situation (not enough info here). Good luck.
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