As in my case, after we had a make-out on two nights and now its weird and she doesn't show IOIs anymore. I do still think she's into me, because I exude awesome alpha behaviour, when we hang out with friends. Meaning, her friends seem to be into me. Even the amog of the group!
So here's something I've tried today.
Hopefully it can be of some use to some of you, I'd love to see corrections or tips that can enrichen this concept further...
How to reinitiate chat with a girl where you think you lost it after the make-out and its weird [Re-establishing attraction with mixed comfort elements]:
Write her. Tell her about something extraordinary youre doing today or have to do (e.g. youre writing an exam). Continue conversation for a few lines. When she doesn’t give value, ignore the last post and don’t write anything back. After 10min go offline.
Next Day you write her again. provide enough value to her, she will respond to it. The trick is, after you say “hello” she will ask you how the “thing” (e.g. exam) went. -> this way you’ve established her as the asking party and you the answering party during the entire conversation. Again, if she doesn’t give any value back, ignore her for 5 minutes and then say you gotta go (e.g.” k, im gonna watch a movie. nite”
As an example I have pasted my example conversation here:
Friday Nite:
heyhey
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vor 24 Minuten
Natascha
o hy
o and how was the exam?
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vor 24 Minuten
Friday Nite
o sweet. passed.
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vor 22 Minuten
Natascha
o was that the same exam michelle had?
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vor 22 Minuten
Friday Nite
o right. how are you sweety?
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vor 17 Minuten
Natascha
o Greeeeeeeat. Thanks.
o how are you?
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vor 15 Minuten
Friday Nite
o perfect.
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vor 15 Minuten
Friday Nite
o just got back my missing sleeo.
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vor 15 Minuten
Natascha
o tomorrow cambio ? [ed.: cambio=name of the bar]
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vor 15 Minuten
Friday Nite
o sleep
o always cambio
o let's open up a club
o that'll stay open-end
o and has female strippers
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vor 14 Minuten
Natascha
o
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vor 14 Minuten
Friday Nite
o and a huge bar
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vor 14 Minuten
Natascha
o naaah
o male strippers
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vor 14 Minuten
Friday Nite
o known allover town
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vor 14 Minuten
Natascha
o
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vor 13 Minuten
Friday Nite
o fair.
o we'll do that based on the weekly events
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vor 13 Minuten
Natascha
o if you say so
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vor 7 Minuten
Friday Nite
o goin to watch a movie
o good nite
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vor 7 Minuten
Natascha
o to you too, i'll go and make me some food.
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vor 7 Minuten
Natascha
o :)
kisses
.....next either she re-initates me or i'll have to do something when we meet our mutual friends again. What do you guys think?? =)
Rockshow
