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| Author: | marcus95 [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 6:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Started out Ok but What next?? |
So I've been emailing this HB7 from a dating website but got stuck after asking her a question. I tried staying away from asking questions because I don't want it to seem like an interview. What do you guys suggest: HER: I must say your headline made my day lol ME: Haha! Im Glad you liked it. (Girl's Name, slightly misspelled)? Is it? HER: (Girl's Name) lol close enough ME: That's a beautiful name! I'm (My Name) nice to e-meet you lol HER Lol how Cute, you're too funny lol. HER: Has anyone ever told you, that you have a big head lol ME: Lmaooooooooo!!!! Big head??? Nice name+sense of humor huh?? I love it!! Lol HER: Oh btw I also watch the re runs of the wayans bros. Every night on centric (were brothers) lmao ME: Omg I LOVE the Wayans bros TV show. I can watch those episodes all day. Why you up so late? Isn't it pass your bedtime? LoL HER: Lol haha you got jokes, and yes I can watch it over and over lol. I love that show I wish they could come out with a new season. ME: Yea me too. you can't stop laughing at that headline? I keep laughing at the fact that you said i have a big head lmaoo. That came outta nowhere, my co-workers were looking at me laughing by myself when I read that! HER: Lol they probably think your a weirdo. Where you Work at? ME: Yea actually they do think ima weirdo lol. I work at the police department. What about you? HER: I work with customer service for hospitals |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 4:46 pm ] |
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Just to clarify is this through actual email or messaging her throught he site? Anyways to continue I want to harp on something that you said. You said you want to stay away from asking her questions because of it feeling like an interview. I can understand your sentiment but it's misplaced a bit. Keep in mind that to get a girl off the Internet and talking over the phone and then in you arms she is going to have to be comfortable with you. In order to make her comfortable with you you are going to have to ask questions about her, tell her your stories, entice her to ask questions about you, etc. Most of online game is about building comfort and getting the girl comfortable as fast as possible so you can get off the Internet and on a date quickly. You don't want messages to span over days on the site or through email. Your goal should be to get her # that same day if possible. Then a date within 5 days of that is setup! |
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| Author: | marcus95 [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 5:50 pm ] |
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Thanks for the reply J Smooth. This has been going on since last Thursday via the email client on the dating website. I didn't send my first reply till Saturday to keep her waiting. Her last reply was Monday. I'm guessing you think this is taking too long? 
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 7:35 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks for the reply J Smooth. This has been going on since last Thursday via the email client on the dating website. I didn't send my first reply till Saturday to keep her waiting. Her last reply was Monday. I'm guessing you think this is taking too long?
WAY TOO LONG!!!! Dude you need to get her offline and in front of you as fast as you can while still keeping her comfortable with the interaction. PERIOD. That is your only mission for online game. If you don't get her in front of you it doesn't matter the rest.For online game NEVER EVER wait to reply to a girl. You want to reply and start talking back and forth as fast as you can. Why? Because girls get bored fast online and move to bigger and better things. You want to strike while the iron is hot so to speak not wait for it to cool off. When you're on a dating site what's the point in waiting? Value?!? You're both on a "dating" site...get over it. Also, when a girl replies to you attraction is assumed at that point so need to wait to do a reply for the purposes of building attraction. You also don't need to worry about doing a lot to build attraction while talking online. A little teasing is good but primarily you need to focus on comfort building to get her to agree to giving you her # and moving from that to a date. |
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| Author: | marcus95 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 12:01 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Thanks for the reply J Smooth. This has been going on since last Thursday via the email client on the dating website. I didn't send my first reply till Saturday to keep her waiting. Her last reply was Monday. I'm guessing you think this is taking too long?
WAY TOO LONG!!!! Dude you need to get her offline and in front of you as fast as you can while still keeping her comfortable with the interaction. PERIOD. That is your only mission for online game. If you don't get her in front of you it doesn't matter the rest.For online game NEVER EVER wait to reply to a girl. You want to reply and start talking back and forth as fast as you can. Why? Because girls get bored fast online and move to bigger and better things. You want to strike while the iron is hot so to speak not wait for it to cool off. When you're on a dating site what's the point in waiting? Value?!? You're both on a "dating" site...get over it. Also, when a girl replies to you attraction is assumed at that point so need to wait to do a reply for the purposes of building attraction. You also don't need to worry about doing a lot to build attraction while talking online. A little teasing is good but primarily you need to focus on comfort building to get her to agree to giving you her # and moving from that to a date. Alright Cool Thanks J-Smooth!! Well I gave her the option of texting or emailing telling her i dont check the dating site email often. She opted to text me. We've been texting back and forth since Wednesday. But I skipped yesterday to give her some breathing room. But then I finally called her for the first time today and guess what?? She didn't answer  . I forgot which PUA book I was reading but I remember him saying that a lot of times no answering = a No. Do I need to build more comfort to get her on the phone? or am I panicking too early???
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