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Author:  situation11 [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 12:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Need a little FB help.
Met a girl at a Halloween party and its day 5 and cant # close. HELP!

ME: What's upp love ! I had fun the other night. How was the rest of your Halloween ?

HER: yeah it was pretty fun! the shoe weekend overall was good, i didn't go out halloween night though because i had work and stuff unfortunately. how about yours?

ME: It was really good, I had literally just gotten back from NJ visiting the fam and friends before the party Sunday. Halloween day I literally got off work, came home played with my pup and than we slept pretty much until the next day haha.

p.s. it's Britney BITCH! ......lol (haha guys.. long story, please don't ask )

HER: haha that sounds nice, i'm visiting family this weekend. haha love britney :):)

ME: Where's your family from? We should hangout sometime grab some coffee and bs!

HER: haha bs? i like coffee, haha
they're from northern virginia so not too farr

ME: bullshit..chit chat...conversate haha oh yeah that's real close better than a 4 1/2 hr drive. What's your number mcnabbb ( She was wearing a mcnab jersey at the party)

HER: haha yeah very true, 4 and a half hours would suck. ahh i don't give my number out right awayyyy haha, but oh i gotcha now with the chitchat and bullshit haha



AND NOW IM STUCK! What to do fellas?! Help please, THANKS!
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 1:33 pm ]
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So let me get this straight. You met this girl in person at a Halloween party and you got her email or Facebook?

I had a rant about this that you can read if you want but the bottom line is if you met her in person you should have gotten her # then when her buying temperature so to speak was at it's peak. When you meet a women in person and you're clicking she's as excited about you as she's going to be, that's the time to ask her.

Now on the other hand I don't know what you've been discussing for the past 5 days but based on her response it's obvious she doesn't feel she knows enough about you to give out her #. You need to build more rapport with her before you ask for her number again...she needs to be comfortable giving it out.

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Author:  situation11 [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 1:53 pm ]
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I was beyond inebriated. I barely remember talking to her, if it wasn't for my roomate telling me what her name was, I probably wouldn't even be in this situation right now. However, where do I go from here? What do I say next? Do I just ignore it?
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 2:20 pm ]
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I was beyond inebriated. I barely remember talking to her, if it wasn't for my roomate telling me what her name was, I probably wouldn't even be in this situation right now. However, where do I go from here? What do I say next? Do I just ignore it?
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You need to build more rapport with her before you ask for her number again...she needs to be comfortable giving it out.
Act like it never happened and start asking her questions to build comfort and rapport. Talk to her about her past, her future, her goals, where she takes trips to, about her family, etc. and tell her stuff about yourself during that as well to establish and build comfort. Once she is a lot comfortable with you and she knows you better and you're more than some guy she met at a party once, then ask again for her #.
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