PUA Forum :: "You are cute but so young :)"

I would say let's just be friends, but you wouldn't be able to resist me.

C/f is a fail on e-dating... At least in the beginning. I can never get that to work!

Maybe I can clown on her for calling me young.

"So young. Really? Thanks! On our first date I'll let you push me around in a stroller"

You are cute but so old

woo hooo. You guys are going the wrong way to solve the problem. Let me get you all back on the right path.
It's all cout frames.
Now lets move into the right way to solve the issue.
As stated about, its all cout frames. She is trying to set a frame passively, here is how
you are cute but too young (for me, you are not upto my standard, we are not going to get along etc)
now you need to apply the frame control. And there are two ways to frame control
1. Passive face control
2. Active frame control
now without going into the details i am going to give examples of the replies
1. You could just laugh it out, "hahahahaha" and then changed the topic. That is passive frame control. Now if you sense that she is pushing the subject and isnt moving away from the topic, then you need to apply active frame control without insulting her, an example would be
"you dont need to worry about age, i know all about myself. Worry about yours"
hb,"i know mine and i dont need to worry about it"
you,"if you are sure about yours then you really dont need to worry about it and thats so cool"
now not only frames have been turned around but her frame has been crushed too.
Enjoy
khuram

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Thanks for the posts..

@Khuram, you go that route and you'll end up with a boring ass convo. Too serious. I rather have fun and game then be serious, which is someone im not, and game.

i will absolutely not, as i already have 101 topics that i can switch too and have fun while building attraction, comfort etc.
Now without going into what i said and expanding it more and explaining the inns and out of it, i would just say that you do what you think is right.
Good luck.

Author:	Fucker [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 1:28 am ]
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She has 9 years on me. How do I respond to this? Me: You have big brown eyes like a puppy. I'm going to name you Scooby. Her: Actually, they are green. and I am not sure that was a compliment. Me: You're cool. Me: Muah! Her: You are cute but so young

Author:	Fucker [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 1:35 am ]
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What I'm thinking about sending, not sure though You're 29 and I'm 20. Together, we average out to 24.5. Not too shabby. (But I feel like when you try to game her, that's an immediate DLV and she's being DHV. She's the prize, I'm not sort of deal. I have to flip the script, but at the same time, game her)

Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:18 am ]
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Quote: I would say let's just be friends, but you wouldn't be able to resist me. IDK if it's the best, but is not putting her on a pedestal, and conveying c/f.[/quote]

Author:	Fucker [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:36 am ]
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C/f is a fail on e-dating... At least in the beginning. I can never get that to work! Maybe I can clown on her for calling me young. "So young. Really? Thanks! On our first date I'll let you push me around in a stroller" I'm diggin' that. But I want other users inputs cuz I want to fuck this cougar bad man!!!!

Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:57 am ]
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Quote: C/f is a fail on e-dating... At least in the beginning. I can never get that to work! Maybe I can clown on her for calling me young. "So young. Really? Thanks! On our first date I'll let you push me around in a stroller" I really do like the stroller thing. So much so, I just added it in my notes. Kudos! IDK.. it's hard to say what will work with every girl.Especially without seeing her, or her profile. I always take that into consideration. A lot of times I see something about being sarcastic on a lady's profile. When I do, I got all out C/F.

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Author:	Jambi [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 3:58 am ]
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You are cute but so old

Author:	Fucker [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 5:13 am ]
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I dropped the stroller bomb, and she replied "You are a smart ass too." So I replied back, "Not really, but here's a kiss and a band aid to fix that booboo" I feel like I"m doing it right. Starting to get the jest of things.

Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:35 pm ]
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Quote: woo hooo. You guys are going the wrong way to solve the problem. Let me get you all back on the right path. It's all cout frames. Now lets move into the right way to solve the issue. As stated about, its all cout frames. She is trying to set a frame passively, here is how you are cute but too young (for me, you are not upto my standard, we are not going to get along etc) now you need to apply the frame control. And there are two ways to frame control 1. Passive face control 2. Active frame control now without going into the details i am going to give examples of the replies 1. You could just laugh it out, "hahahahaha" and then changed the topic. That is passive frame control. Now if you sense that she is pushing the subject and isnt moving away from the topic, then you need to apply active frame control without insulting her, an example would be "you dont need to worry about age, i know all about myself. Worry about yours" hb,"i know mine and i dont need to worry about it" you,"if you are sure about yours then you really dont need to worry about it and thats so cool" now not only frames have been turned around but her frame has been crushed too. Enjoy khuram Man, you WAY TOO MUCH thought into this. Game is not that difficult. Online you need to keep it playful and keep them interested in you. Simple, effective, and it works. I guess your ideas might. Thanks trolling them to us.

Author:	HeyWhatsUp [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:54 pm ]
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Dude, I'm 16 and I've had a 27 year old. I think you can make things work.

Author:	Darth Vader [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:36 pm ]
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Tell her you have a fantasy about being with an older woman. Lowering her value without insulting her, but at the same time sounding kind of taboo and romantic.' She will say to herself" He's right I'm getting older" , but she will be smitten that you dig her, even though she's old.

Author:	Fucker [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 4:39 am ]
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Thanks for the posts.. @Khuram, you go that route and you'll end up with a boring ass convo. Too serious. I rather have fun and game then be serious, which is someone im not, and game.

Author:	Fucker [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:16 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Thanks for the posts.. @Khuram, you go that route and you'll end up with a boring ass convo. Too serious. I rather have fun and game then be serious, which is someone im not, and game. i will absolutely not, as i already have 101 topics that i can switch too and have fun while building attraction, comfort etc. Now without going into what i said and expanding it more and explaining the inns and out of it, i would just say that you do what you think is right. Good luck. You seem like you can punjabi dance

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