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Author:  Teknine [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 11:49 pm ]
Post subject:  do you confirm first dates?

-Met a woman on okc
-Within 4 messages, she gives me her number
-Have a good 30 min conversation, I ask her out ,she agrees; tell her I'll text her my schedule
-Text her my schedule the next day, and we set up a date for Tues.
-This was 3 days ago now

No contact of any kind in between, no texting or anything.

So it's simple - I don't want to appear needy, not confident that she'll show...do you confirm in this case? I'm getting conflicting advice from friends who are not into game - so I come to you guys.

Author:  dlightmen [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:02 am ]
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Here's what I'd say:

I'm canceling! :P

Depending on her comeback you could say... "Well, okay we can still go out."

-or-


You canceled first, and live to fight another day.

Author:  Teknine [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:10 am ]
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Damn that's thermonuclear.

Normally I would try that out - but this is a hot woman a bit older than myself, kind of a cougar. When I talked to her she was a little insecure about her age.

I would imagine this would be quite effective on the young ones though - I wanna try it! I have just the target...heh.

Or do you think age doesn't matter here.

Author:  dlightmen [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:41 am ]
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Quote:
Damn that's thermonuclear.

Normally I would try that out - but this is a hot woman a bit older than myself, kind of a cougar. When I talked to her she was a little insecure about her age.

I would imagine this would be quite effective on the young ones though - I wanna try it! I have just the target...heh.

Or do you think age doesn't matter here.
":P" indicates a joking nature.

Author:  Teknine [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:44 am ]
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LOL. obviously I did not get it! but have not had much sleep.

Author:  dlightmen [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:45 am ]
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LOL. obviously I did not get it! but have not had much sleep.
I'm really sarcastic in my texts. But the women I text know this about me. So it might not work for you, if you're always serious.

They know when I use :P; I'm being sarcastic.

Author:  Teknine [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:50 am ]
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I hear you. I am very verbally adept, playful w/texts, but I threw a playful text her way after we nailed the logistics down and she did not respond. It was all business - when/where. On the phone, she was very playful and different. Maybe this is her game...

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