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Author:  ix. [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Can i rescue this? Sent wrong message to wrong girl... oops
I know, I'm an idiot :P

It was nothing incriminating really, just embarrassing. I'd arranged to go to see a local band with a girl and was sending her a message about the time/ticket price so nothing particularly bad, but I accidentally sent the message to a different girl. Oops.

Now the second girl is away until saturday so I have a bit of time to think of my recovery. This 2nd girl is quite insecure so I don't think she'll like it, although we haven't done anything but talk and haven't arranged to meet it was heading that way for when she returns. If she was a stuck up HB10 this would be a DHV but in this case I really don't think it'll help due to her personality.

any ideas on the best way to handle this? other than "oops, that was embarrasing, that was supposed to go to someone else :S"
Author:  Darth Vader [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:40 pm ]
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can we read the message?
Author:  dlightmen [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:05 pm ]
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I used to try to juggle women like that, and ALWAYS fucked up on texting....


Whenever I fuck up like that I just say, "opps that was going to my cousin".
Author:  ix. [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 8:43 pm ]
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Yeah but this was a dating site I don't think that'll fly ;)

here's the message:
Quote:
Yeah, she's also going to Italy after that! But she works awful hours which makes me feel slightly less jealous. A small family must have its benefits but I do quite like having a large one, it makes christmas fun if a bit of a logistical nightmare.

Do you always invite people you don't know to stay? I mean, you don't know me really, how do you know I'm not a serial killer or arsonist? I might steal your things, piss in your potted plants or wrap all your possessions in kitchen foil. Besides, for all I know I could get there and find that you're a large, balding, 40 year old man. Gigs don't usually finish that late and I have to get back anyway to get to work the next day but thanks for the offer.

Looks like tickets are cheap, £5. I should be able to get there for 20:45. Is that a good for you?
First bit is pretty irrelevant, just a continuation of a discussion we were having.

Yes, girl #1 asked me if I wanted to 'crash at hers' after our first date. Yes, it was a shit test. Yes, that's going to make girl #2 insecure as fuck.
Author:  dlightmen [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:31 pm ]
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Yeah but this was a dating site I don't think that'll fly ;)

here's the message:
Quote:
Yeah, she's also going to Italy after that! But she works awful hours which makes me feel slightly less jealous. A small family must have its benefits but I do quite like having a large one, it makes christmas fun if a bit of a logistical nightmare.

Do you always invite people you don't know to stay? I mean, you don't know me really, how do you know I'm not a serial killer or arsonist? I might steal your things, piss in your potted plants or wrap all your possessions in kitchen foil. Besides, for all I know I could get there and find that you're a large, balding, 40 year old man. Gigs don't usually finish that late and I have to get back anyway to get to work the next day but thanks for the offer.

Looks like tickets are cheap, £5. I should be able to get there for 20:45. Is that a good for you?
First bit is pretty irrelevant, just a continuation of a discussion we were having.

Yes, girl #1 asked me if I wanted to 'crash at hers' after our first date. Yes, it was a shit test. Yes, that's going to make girl #2 insecure as fuck.
That's why i said i, not you should.... ;0)
Author:  ix. [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 3:51 pm ]
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Any ideas? :(
Author:  Darth Vader [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 4:21 pm ]
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Any ideas? :(
After reading your message, Prayer

...lol sounds like you dug a pretty deep grave. Only thing I can think of is it was with a group of people from the secret underground society party scene or something. Or some stranger invited you to go to a concert and over to do drugs. lol Then tell her you need help...you're an addict and play depressed.. :lol:
Author:  ix. [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 7:09 pm ]
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Well, it's a dating site, we have no kind of exclusivity or had even set up a date. I guess I'll just send her "Well this is embarrassing, that was intended for someone else" and see what happens.
Author:  ix. [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 7:42 pm ]
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Think I should smooch it a little? "Serves me right for copying my messages into a spellchecker and wondering when you were getting back at the same time" might win me a couple of brownie points back ;)
Author:  Jambi [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 8:10 pm ]
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Oh man. Good luck with this one. LOL

Maybe say, 'some crazy chick invited me blah blah I'm trying to get out of it. This is what I was thinking of sending her. What do you think I should do. How can I get out of this? you HAVE to help me!'

It might be diggng an even deeper grave or it might get her on your side? At any rate, take one for the team and consider it as research ;)
Author:  ix. [ Thu Sep 15, 2011 8:32 pm ]
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I ended up just sending her what I put above.

For the record, girl #2: http://img52.imageshack.us/img52/7256/no2o.jpg

*facepalm*
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