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| Author: | thejoker55 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 10:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Got her number ....next what? |
I exchanged few messages online with a girl and both of us got pretty comfortable .Then we exchanged numbers ....and I just talked to her for the first time .Slight problem is that she is from a different city ...so setting up an instant date is an issue .. I was wondering if there are any techniques to build attraction over the phone?Senior PUAs comments? ...I sometimes feel i dont have much to talk over the phone ....any good topics that would make for a good conversation? And what should be my next step from here? |
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| Author: | Vitamin-J [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:11 am ] |
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I've locked girls into simi long term text game when it come to stuff like this. that way your not exhausting yer convo's over the phone. |
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| Author: | Jambi [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 12:26 pm ] |
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http://www.mypuajourney.com/jack-phone-games-a-bimbo/ http://www.mypuajourney.com/jack-phone-games-a-bimbo/ Check that out it might help. Let me know if it helps you. The problem I had was that I wanted to make every phonecall perfect. Puts alot of pressure on the situation and you only take the negative out of the experience. This way it snowballs into an experience of not enjoying the phonecall and if you don't enjoy it why the hell would she? Then you become affraid to phone girls because they never go well and it seriously hurts you're game because calling someone is a good way of building rapour and getting a connection before and after the first meet. |
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| Author: | thejoker55 [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 8:14 pm ] |
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Thanks Mytt8 and Vitamin -J .Any links to text gaming?Or atleast some pointers to some basic texting over the phone to get you going. I mean some topics to talk about over text? I feel the same thing that I might run out of topics on the call and then it may lead to awkward silence......I guess in this case switching from calling to texting ( with call once in a while ) is ok and not considered as passive gaming? |
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| Author: | Darth Vader [ Fri Sep 09, 2011 11:54 pm ] |
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have phone sex with her . |
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| Author: | Jackson Reinerman [ Sat Sep 10, 2011 2:47 am ] |
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Or even better get her on webcam and have cam sex. |
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| Author: | thejoker55 [ Sat Sep 10, 2011 8:10 am ] |
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I am looking for some serious advice guys :-/ ..btw I did have a round of texting today but it pretty much reduced to how was your day blah blah and then I asked her if she is going to be online to which I never got a reply |
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| Author: | Darth Vader [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 2:15 am ] |
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quit texting, seriously . "how is your day" Is fucking boring dude. I reccomend reading up on Ross Jefferies and get some material from every MPUA. On language patterns The only way to build crazy I attraction is get her on the phone one night and have a conversation with her. Don't call her when she's running around with her friends or doing things. Get her when she's at home relaxing in her bed. She's most vulnerable then. Tease the fuck out of her. If you don't insert any type of sexual talk she will think you as just a friend. Every girl I've hooked up with, I inserted something sexual in nature, or something exciting. Girls love to fantasize about stuff. This is called her pandoras box. |
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| Author: | Vitamin-J [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:44 am ] |
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Quote: have phone sex with her .
Need to build up to that, meeting a girl and going right for phone sex is a bad idea |
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| Author: | Vitamin-J [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:45 am ] |
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Quote: Or even better get her on webcam and have cam sex.
Cam sex just seems to lack class imo. |
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| Author: | Darth Vader [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 8:48 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: have phone sex with her .
Need to build up to that, meeting a girl and going right for phone sex is a bad idea |
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| Author: | thejoker55 [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:02 am ] |
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Thanks guys for helping me out ...rather than going for cam /web/phone sex I am trying to get the actual stuff I am planning to do a mix of Flirty and non-Flirty stuff tomorrow ...till now I have decided on few topics ( may be like her favorite place to date/observation of her features from the pics and her notes on the profile ...on the flirty side ...and non-flirty topics like traveling /her +mine experiences )... I did do my Homework ..but most of the sites + on this site- all I get is generic topics ( topics should be open ended /suspense blah blah) . I am looking for specific examples and if you can edit my list above that'd be great . |
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| Author: | Darth Vader [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:07 am ] |
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Quote: Thanks guys for helping me out ...rather than going for cam /web/phone sex I am trying to get the actual stuff
Here dude read Chiefs post. sexual-attraction-explained-in-depth-vt40419.html I'm telling you if you don't insert anything that is sexual you're going to end up in the friend zone.
I am planning to do a mix of Flirty and non-Flirty stuff tomorrow ...till now I have decided on few topics ( may be like her favorite place to date/observation of her features from the pics and her notes on the profile ...on the flirty side ...and non-flirty topics like traveling /her +mine experiences )... I did do my Homework ..but most of the sites + on this site- all I get is generic topics ( topics should be open ended /suspense blah blah) . I am looking for specific examples and if you can edit my list above that'd be great . |
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| Author: | thejoker55 [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:07 am ] |
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and @ASIANREDNECK - Bro.... (till now ) She looks like a decent and nice girl ( not with too tantrums and blah blah or bitchy types) ...infact she was impressed and appreciated my honesty in the messages to her and gave the number in first go when I asked her....and so suddenly jumping to sexual content all of a sudden may scare her off...I am looking for something more gradual .. |
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| Author: | Darth Vader [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 9:09 am ] |
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Quote: and @ASIANREDNECK - Bro.... (till now ) She looks like a decent and nice girl ( not with too tantrums and blah blah or bitchy types) ...infact she was impressed and appreciated my honesty in the messages to her and gave the number in first go when I asked her....and so suddenly jumping to sexual content all of a sudden may scare her off...I am looking for something more gradual ..
sounds like you want to be friends with her." You don't know the power of the dark side" Darth Vader I'm going to rename myself Darth Vader, because my method is somewhat on the dark side. |
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