Hey guys,
So here's a handy mindset to try and get into.
I've been trying to help a friend of mine get out there and sarge. He's on his own in a new city, which is perfect cos nobody knows you enough to be warned you know what you're doing. Only he doesn't so I'm trying to give him some pointers.
Main thing is Approach Anxiety. He's terrified of just starting to talk. I notice this in a lot of guys I know non-PUAs. This is good for us because it means less competition.
So here's my mindset I think will help you if you're like my friend.
EVERYTHING in life comes down to YES or NO. There is no grey area. MAYBE is NO because it's not YES.
Example- I want to talk to that HB9. Either YES I do it or NO I don't. Either YES we get along or NO we don't. It's that simple. Just like if you run out of milk and go to the store and it's late either YES they'll be open or NO they won't.
Once you realize this, it takes the anxiety and drama out of all approaches. And if you don't gel or she's a bitch or has no personality then BE HAPPY cos you just found out everything you need to know about that chick and don't have to spend time or money on her.
It's YES or NO. Y'know, just like the morning after- YES she gave me an STD or I wrapped up double so NO she didn't...
