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Author:  AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  The Cure to being Shy!!
Hey guys Sage here, I've always been a little shy when it's come to girls. I have great personality, but just would freeze up everytime I'd want to approach a girl. Girls that I already had met I had no problem running game on them, it's just girls i didn't know.

The cure i found was the online game. It was really easy for me to add and message girls. Instantly I was collecting over 20 numbers a week. Obviously i got a little excited and didn't follow up with most of them.

Since than I've only strictly used the online game through facebook, myspace, or any social venue. I've found it an easier transition for myself from message, to text, to phone, to meet up, and f*ck. I've got hundreds of numbers using the online method and found out I'm no longer shy anymore. Hope this helps! Feel free to PM me any questions.
Author:  Verbal Seduction [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 8:31 am ]
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dont listen to him guys
ONLINE GAME will NOT take rid of your shyness
the only way to get rid of shyness is by courage
Author:  AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 9:34 am ]
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Says the guy who knows nothing about the ONLINE GAME. I didn't say it doesn't take courage. It takes a lot of courage, it just eliminates the approach. I love how you follow me around Verbal it's quite hilarious.

Show me some proof that you've picked up online and maybe I'll do it your way.
Author:  Kabi [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 10:56 am ]
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I would actually say this.
You train on the internet, you have more time to think of what to say and what to answer, this makes you smarter and is good for practice and can increase your self confidence a bit.

But, there is a big difference between field and internet.
In field there are more communications than internet,
more to express like bodylanguage and so on, and more to notice, on internet you can only express with smileys and text.

About shyness, I dont actually think online gaming will make you less shy, even though it sounds really true when you increase your confidence a bit and can get rid of shyness because of that, but hey.. we are all different in our ways some get less shy others don't.
Author:  AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 11:07 am ]
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I agree Kabi. It is preference, I find the approach is usually where most people chicken out on though. Once you get to the date it's all the same though.
Author:  Kupid [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 4:17 pm ]
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Yeah if you are just looking to get laid it's the best and the easiest game you can have (true reality: anyone can get laid of the internet), but that doesn't make you more confident and less shy, field is different from online.
Also a lot of guys think, they can fix their 'inner game' through online, yeah sure you can do that bunch of times, but in the end you find out that you were just pumping up your own ego (which felt good), but didn't gave you any emprovements in life.

If you wanna get rid of fear talking to girls guess what you have to do, TALK TO GIRLS, there's no way around it, there is no online cheating, no going to a whorehouse cheating, no NLP "get her panties wet" cheating, yeah those things get you laid, but they don't emprove you as a human being.

My view goes like this, internet is a great enviroment and a great tool for gaming which can bring you advantages in certain points while learning this stuff, but it's not "the real shit". :D
Author:  Mantis- [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 9:08 pm ]
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not that i'm shy, but i';d like to try online game. mind giving me ur msn and help me out with online game?
Author:  Hotaru [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 10:22 pm ]
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actually I think both ways (approach and online) take some courage in different ways.

when in online game you have to deal with 'do i know you?'-issues and expressing yourself in only using text and maybe a profile picture takes some effort. might be challenging to pull stuff like that off. to be honest, i can remember i have 'dated' a couple of girls too though FB.
in approach game you can express yourself more through non-verbal communication n stuff, but the thing is you re more 'vulnerable' so it takes a lot of courage too..

in my opinion, the both different ways both have their charms.. ;D as long as yuu feel good with it, and get results, yuu can be happy ;D

cheers

Hotaru
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