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Author:  jimpartUSA [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Can you be an introverted PUA?
Hmm...just an interesting question i've been swirling around my mind lately.

So, people see me as a wise person, someone they come to for help and someone mysterious. But can being introverted like me, be equal or even surpass being extroverted in terms of the art of seduction and attraction.

I rarely approach a girl and i talk in riddles etc and dudes think this is cool and they see me as the leader etc, but some really extroverted loud girls see this as being arrogant and closed, which im not.

My question really i guess is ... How can you be introverted and mysterious yet attract the extroverts.
Author:  april6e [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 10:45 pm ]
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I personally think so.

You would be the mysterious guy that women chase just to figure you out. Reward when they chase, ignore when they try to act up. They'll come after you just because you are the only guy who isn't pawing at her.

Of course, as a newbie, there is the huge problem of how do you get someone chasing in the first place with no social circle, and no value. Most of these guys are masters of social circle and implied value, I've never heard of someone without money, fame, or looks who has women chasing him without value and/or a strong social circle.

I'd love to figure it out though, haha.
Author:  Deadeyexx [ Fri Jul 22, 2011 1:13 pm ]
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I don't think you'll be able to attract the extroverts in a setting that favors them. You have little value there.

Do day or online game and base your technique on seduction.
Author:  Stand Up [ Thu Sep 01, 2011 6:34 am ]
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of course you can, think Johnny Depp, Robert Pattinson etc. Girls love them. The key is to use that ability to listen, to make deep, emotion filled eye contact. You have to allow her to believe there is a reason you're being introverted. And you can't let that reason be arrogance.

Too many people refuse to engage because they believe they're better than other people, and this is what the girls might be assuming. As an introvert you probably aren't approaching that many women, so simply make every conversation truly count.

You'll be fine as long as you stay true to you.
Author:  Defy [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:10 pm ]
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Once I learned that being social doesn't get me laid, I stopped carrying about this.

The problem that most introverted people have is that they never leave their comfort zone. They just don't know how to engage other people.

I see people in my campus all day and night sitting and talking and drinking and socializing and being "extroverted". I see them every day and don't bother to even say hello. I rather find few among them to play basketball or chase girls or do something other that's active and fun.

BUT, you still have to know how to take actions towards girls when there's an opportunity. Not by being mysterious, but by being direct .
By being social that transition is smoother, that's all.
Author:  mrjones [ Fri Sep 02, 2011 10:33 pm ]
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Once I learned that being social doesn't get me laid, I stopped carrying about this.

The problem that most introverted people have is that they never leave their comfort zone. They just don't know how to engage other people.

I see people in my campus all day and night sitting and talking and drinking and socializing and being "extroverted". I see them every day and don't bother to even say hello. I rather find few among them to play basketball or chase girls or do something other that's active and fun.

BUT, you still have to know how to take actions towards girls when there's an opportunity. Not by being mysterious, but by being direct .
By being social that transition is smoother, that's all.
that's exactly me too. if i try to be too social i usually end up saying something irrelevant, or worse, corny. so i like to maintain a steady personality that isn't cheesing and smiling all the time. i try to maintain a good poker face, like if i pulled a prank on someone and try to act like it wasn't me
Author:  Everfresh [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 8:36 pm ]
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I think the whole point of being alpha is that you maintain your frame and uphold your personal values etc. to a point where you are living a happy existence. So it doesn't really matter whether you are an introvert or extrovert, as long as you maintain your frame.

So if you do decide to be quiet, make sure your body language is 150% perfect.
ie:good eye contact, posture, smiling etc. Then you will come off like a robert pattinson/johnny depp type. Also work hard on making sure you can pass all shit tests...if you are a quiet dude and fail a shit test then you are pegged as socially awkward and thats why you don't talk much. If you pass all shit tests then you are an alpha who just wants to chill.

A great reference for this type of game is Cajun. He is very laid back, mysterious and quiet, but he doesn't let extroverted girls interrupt him or take over the conversation. You can see him on "Keys to the VIP" on youtube.

I'm also a fairly introverted guy, but I've learnt you can't always wait for the girl you want to come after you. You have to talk a fair amount and lead her in.
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