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| Author: | natedizzle [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to stop being so sensitive towards other people? |
If someone blames something on me that they are really pissed about, I literrally break down, I can't help it either. and if someone calls me stupid for doing something all these thoughts about hurting them phsycollogically come up, things that would fuck up theyre whole life just for calling me a name and then I tell myself I will be alright once i get them back like that...I just want to be able to brush it off without caring but I guess my personality is too sensitive or hopefully it's the fact that I'm introverted and something i can change, can anyone give me some pointers on how to change this?? thanks |
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| Author: | Tiger6Niner [ Wed Apr 27, 2011 8:47 pm ] |
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Someone blames me - Analyse what i did, think about it rationally and logically and then if i was in the wrong, work out how to fix and avoid the problem in the future Someone calls me stupid - same as above Someone calls me a name - come back with a really racist comment about myself eg, "Sorry, my squinty asian eyes were blinded by some fishing line" You could take things so seriously because you arent happy with yourself. Once you are comfortable with who you are, these kinds of things wont bother you |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 12:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to stop being so sensitive towards other people? |
Quote: phsycollogically
...um......well...anyway... here: dealing-with-difficult-people-vt77763.html It's not so much a matter of your personality. It's a matter of deeply rooted insecurities that you have to address. You actually need to transform your entire frame in which you perceive the world. As a side note, browsers like Mozilla Firefox and Google Chrome have a spell checker. |
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| Author: | Algorythm [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 3:17 pm ] |
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Quote: it's not so much a matter of your personality. It's a matter of deeply rooted insecurities that you have to address
Chief I disagree with you on this part, my mother is christian and a strong beliver. I was brought up with the whole kindness and sensitivity, maybe it has something to do with insecurities for other people but in my defense I was brought up with sensitivity and kindness Nate imo, looks like you need to learn how to block those things out and not let it get to you Good luck |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 3:37 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: it's not so much a matter of your personality. It's a matter of deeply rooted insecurities that you have to address
Chief I disagree with you on this part, my mother is christian and a strong beliver. I was brought up with the whole kindness and sensitivity, maybe it has something to do with insecurities for other people but in my defense I was brought up with sensitivity and kindness |
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