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| Author: | Hardliquor001 [ Sat Jan 08, 2011 2:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Shyness with girls |
Hey guys, I've came to this part of the forum to ask you guys how to overcome the shyness that surrounds me when i try talking to girls?? With friends, random dudes, store clerks, girl[friends] I dont have ANY problem talking to them. But when it comes to this one chick I wanna game, my mind totally freezes out and i don't have a damn clue about what to say and worry a lot about what to say next. Is there anything I can do to overcome that? |
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| Author: | DängDängDigelow [ Sun Jan 09, 2011 2:57 pm ] |
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The single best tip i got about this topic (although this topic is ultimately 100000000000 times wider than that) was - If you get nervous when talking to women, than this is because of the simple fact that you weight her opinion more then your own. - And yes most problems that men have concerning their self confidence, can be explained with this explanation... At least thats what ive learned from my own experiences 
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| Author: | gallardo9 [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 1:34 am ] |
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dude...i used to have this exact same problem. I started to consciously ask myself a question if I had AA: "Do I really care what the hell she thinks!! I don't even know her!" - i'd psych myself up till i went and approached her obviously, i care what she thinks if I start to like her and she's responding back but if you prepare for a shutdown and go in with indifference, it's much easier |
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| Author: | Alpha_Man [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 9:28 pm ] |
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Being shy can be a hard thing to overcome, but don't give up. I suggest trying to flirt with a girl, just for the fun of doing it. Feel the energy, tease her, make fun of her, play hard to get, turn her own words against her. For example if she sais something like "I don't think you know how to make sex/kiss me" you say "do you want to find out or why are you asking?" |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 10:14 pm ] |
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You want to make it, and be good with women? Cours eyou do. How will you do this? Think, fuck it, I don't know her, she don't know me, I have nothing to lose. I'll rather try and fail than think "what if I approached her?". Kill the AA by pushing yourself, and thinking, what have you got to lose? |
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