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Author:  anywayyyy [ Wed Dec 29, 2010 10:10 pm ]
Post subject:  inner game for not falling in love

well i got this problem... i think more guys do...

I focus to much on one girl... well i try to focus on more girls, not only trying i do focus on more girls...BUT

In my mind i keep focusing on one of these girls...
I keep wanting to text her i keep wanting to get in contact with her...it sometimes even fucks up my game

are there any tips to somekind of overcome these annoying thoughts?

Author:  jjthejetplane773 [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 12:54 am ]
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I'm assuming by your title that you have a goal to hook up with a plethora of women or you have a belief that falling "in love" with a girl will mess up your game with said girl. Either way, MEET OTHER WOMEN AND FIND THINGS TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME.

Also, what's wrong with texting her and getting in contact with her? Is she not very responsive? Are you freezing her out? Please explain.

Author:  _Jax_ [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 6:46 am ]
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As soon as you keep going out with or talking to multiple girls at the same time your mind wont have time to stop and think about just one.

Author:  anywayyyy [ Thu Dec 30, 2010 1:13 pm ]
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thnx for the reactions!
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I'm assuming by your title that you have a goal to hook up with a plethora of women or you have a belief that falling "in love" with a girl will mess up your game with said girl. .
I'm in the game for a serious relationship. You might be right with the second thing you said: that falling 'in love'' with a girl messes up my game.
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Also, what's wrong with texting her and getting in contact with her? Is she not very responsive? Are you freezing her out? Please explain.
She is responsive its not the problem with this girl (well at this moment there aint really a big problem with her at all, i have set a date up and she's looking forward to it). My reaction on the quote of da veed that's my problem...
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The question you are really asking here is:
How can I be proactive in my seduction without coming across needy?

Don't be needy.

This attitude will develop over time.
Well my main outer game is not needy i think i got the right attitude.
But when i'm going to like this girl, my inner game comes needy and than my outer game goes needy to. It's hard to explain, i hope you understand what im saying.
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As soon as you keep going out with or talking to multiple girls at the same time your mind wont have time to stop and think about just one.
I think you are right about this. But i'm talking to multiple girls, the problem is, i dont like multiple girls, i'm picky.

Author:  anywayyyy [ Fri Dec 31, 2010 12:03 am ]
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what you mean da veed?

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