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| Author: | Genuine [ Fri Oct 01, 2010 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Approach Anxiety Killer |
Disclaimer: I did Post this on someone's thread.. but decided just in case noone read it.. it deserved to be a Topic of its own.. so.. This exercise is what I said to do when faced with Approach Anxiety You are having trouble approaching because of that crippling fear of rejection.. I have something very easy for you to do to work on that.. and I promise.. if you practice this.. your confidence will be more up.. and your approach anxiety will be greatly lowered.. You see a girl or group of girls you are attracted to.. doesnt matter.. These girls didnt go through hrs of getting ready not to be noticed.. its all about what someone says when they approach them... Here's what I want you to do.. You walk up to one of these girls.. and you give them a genuine compliment on something that you noticed about them.. You introduce yourself.. You then say "your name is...." and then say.. hey it was great meeting you.. see ya around.. and walk away... Thats it.. (DISCLAIMER: do not compliment.. Breast, Legs or Ass.. at this stage if you love the way her legs or ass looks in a skirt.. I love the way that skirt fits you or.. that skirt compliments you very well.. Its not cheesy or creepy or dirty.. simple.. straight forward and kind) You were non threatening.. kind.. and had no agenda.. and you will be remembered for that.. in a good way.. I promise you... Yes.. some girls may still have a bitch shield and be an ass.. but being that you were a genuine person.. and said nothing derogatory.. You are in the right.. so.. whenever I got a bitchy response or by chance.. ignored.. I said this "you know.. the proper response to a compliment is Thank You" She will feel like an asshole.. and good.. she deserves it.. alot of times.. you will get an apology.. if she does.. thank her and say.. it was good meeting you.. see you around.. because she made up for her bitchy response with an apology.. you continue with your kindness.. Now if u say the line about a proper response is thank you.. and she is still an asshole.. well.. Trust me my friend.. its not you.. it is her.. and you really dont want to be around her anyway.. I dont care how hot she is.. that just means.. even if she did hook up with you.. shed treat you like shit.. so dont even let that bother you... Please.. Any Feedback is welcome.. If you disagree with this approach.. feel free to tell me.. and why.. Remember.. That approach is for someone whom is afraid to talk to girls period... telling him to say a complex or cocky playful phrase will not work.. and he WILL NOT DELIVER IT CORRECTLY.. ALWAYS REMEMBER "KISS" KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID Thank You for reading Your Friend, ~Genuine (Brian) |
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| Author: | Dither [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 12:43 am ] |
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I like this a lot. I could see it working extremely well during day game, but how about during night game where it's a lot louder and more likely you'll be cock blocked as soon as you talk? |
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| Author: | Genuine [ Mon Oct 04, 2010 7:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Night Game |
I used it primarily in night game... I just spoke up within proximity so they could hear me.. and as for cockblocking.. there really isnt much time to cockblock during that lil exercise.. its under a minute.. its a kind gesture really.. at this time.. you are not picking her up.. this exercise is built to help you get over the approach.. and not worrying about having to find things to talk about.. or having to remember all kinds of weird gambits.. its simple.. Approach, Compliment, Introduce, Leave... It works during the Day and Night... why would you be cockblocked if you have no agenda.. and you are already about to leave.. and then you do.. even though you conveyed interest right away.. and didnt neg anyone.. you didnt stay there like a lost puppy.. you told them it was nice to meet them and you'd see them around.. later that night or next time you run into them.. they will remember you and that you were genuinely kind to them.. and they may actually approach you.. it varies.. but they wont be mean to u.. |
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| Author: | Dither [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 6:11 am ] |
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Thanks for the response. That's awesome advice. I still struggle massively to open during night game, so I'll try this out next time. |
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| Author: | Genuine [ Tue Oct 05, 2010 8:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | great |
if you open 5-10 girls that night... you should be fine... and it def leaves you open to talk later.. dont get worried if a girl gets stupid with you.. just say what I have posted.. and rem.. if the girl is still gonna be nasty at a compliment.. well.. she is just a shit person and you dont wanna talk to her anyway.. |
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| Author: | Underworlder [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 7:58 am ] |
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Have you ever used this and a girl followed you, or continued trying to talk while you were walking away? Curious. it sounds like a great advice for those just getting into the game. |
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| Author: | Genuine [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | yup |
Yes.. I have been walking away and girl grabbed my arm and asked why I was leaving.. Thats what this is meant for.. the BRAND NEW PEOPLE.. that cant even talk to girls.. it starts building them with minor successes.. and then leaves them open to use more advanced stuff later.. |
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| Author: | @TheRealDonnyV [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 3:58 pm ] |
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I will look into this a little more. Just to try the general approach and see it's success rate. If it works I will recommmend to some rookies. |
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| Author: | Conflicted [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 1:28 pm ] |
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I really like this. I have done it once or twice a while back. Builds very good equity for later on in the club/party, especially if done early. I have been thinking of a positive response to the bitch shield response. Much appreciated. |
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| Author: | Genuine [ Thu Oct 14, 2010 10:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | bitch shield response |
I have a variety of counters that I usually come up with spontaneously.. but what I posted is a very easy one for beginners.. and shows that yer not some sad afc pushover guy... shows some Moxie.. Balls.. |
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| Author: | jazz25 [ Sat Oct 16, 2010 11:15 am ] |
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Demonic confidence, download it online its a 21 day course. Best thing I ever did for my game/confidence. I hardly have any AA anymore.. But AA really never goes away. . . |
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| Author: | Trail_Blazer [ Sat Oct 16, 2010 9:22 pm ] |
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best advice ive had. Dont think too start with. Just jump in and say "hey" before you can think of a reason not too. |
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| Author: | Genuine [ Mon Oct 18, 2010 8:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | glad |
Im glad I was able to help some of you guys.. I'll post new threads soon with some other stuff as well.. some of the stuff.. depends on its delivery.. if not delivered properly can cause ya to fail... mind you.. not this thread though.. this thread is the easiest simple way of approaching.. Thanks ~Brian |
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| Author: | trackdriven [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:44 pm ] |
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i'm putting a goal to do one of these before going home. and will report back if i do it or not. if not then someone call me out on it! thanks man, it's about time i started living again. |
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| Author: | Nayail [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 7:43 pm ] |
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Great, love it, doesn't get any simpler than that! Also like the reminder that if she's a bitch...it's probably not you, it's her! |
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