You know theres alot of shit, in my opinion, going around about how to be rid AA. For instance "who gives a fuck about what they think?" Who doesn't give a fuck about what others think? "Face your fears", if you had the same fear for snakes how would you get over it? By jumping into the deep end and rolling around with python or two? This is all bullshit, why? Because none of these actually offer a sure fire way of PROPERLY getting over how afraid you are about approaching women.
You see you'll never have the will power to overcome your fear if you dont't have the intent to do so! Read that again!
Direction
Let me ask you, imagine a women at a bar, all alone. Her body is the best a womens can get, and her face is simply beautiful. Now the best seducers- the naturals, already know what they want to do. They already have direction. Some want to get to know her, some want to sleep with her, either their going to turn up next to her and focus on what they want. And so their conversation is directed that way!
When an AFC is asked what he wants out of the relationship, his mind will immediately shut down. Something inside tells him not to answer that question, not to give himself direction. Not to limit himself to what he wants. An AFC is a man who doesn't take action, because he's afraid nothing great will happen to him if he does. Just like what Brad said in fight club: "We've been told we're going to be rockstars when we grow, but we're not. . ."
So the first step for any AFC is to get his life into gear, don't become a victim of luck, endlessly waiting for that miracle to happen to you! Give yourself direction, make your own miracles happen. Don't waste your days forever dreaming. Make those dreams happen with some good old fashioned hard fucking work.
So if you see a women in a bar, listen to what you want, and then make the approach trying to achieve that goal. Be focused, if you want to sleep with her, why not compliment her? Why not openly admire her beauty? You see I play off direct game myself, yes thats right I said it, on this forum which is a indirect paradise.
. Night clubs are my field, I approach with the intent of seducing the women to the point where I know I can sleep with her. And then and only then deciding whether I want to. And you'll be amazed how women will respect you for having the inner dicipline to do this!Overall, the path: 1. Get a life 2. Get The Women
PS: Also, a handy tip is, give yourself a time limit. Sometimes I'll think over the next ten minutes I'll seduce this women. And then ask for her number or make a move after the ten minutes.