Your problem is your entire world view; just look at your username. If you see life as a bitch; shitty, mean, inhospitable, that's the way its gonna be with you. Perception is reality, thats why NLP works (if you really believe in something, it becomes true, and this goes both ways, good and bad).
So start from the beginning; all your failures are a thing of the past, don't dwell on them, but learn from them. Your issues are with confidence; and your beliefs in yourself. Focus on the "now", not what has already happened, not what "could" happen, but now. Best way to re-affirm your life is to take up a challenging (yet productive) past-time; something that you have a passion for, like a sport, the more time you spend outside, mingling with others, the better. Focus on doing something, rather than sitting around and moping about how much you suck.
So don't get caught up in past mistakes, they are holding you back. Change your world view and perception of yourself, get in the "now", play some sports, go to the gym, spend time in the "outside" world (just going for a walk is better than sitting inside and watching tv). You have your own strengths, so find them, and do what you want to do, live the life you want to live; no regrets. Get out there!
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) If you think you are a shit, you are a shit.