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Author:  ReversalUk [ Mon May 17, 2010 7:28 pm ]
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This is a question all you guys out there.. when I was younger it would just take a girl to touch my hand and Id get a hard on right there and then. But as I get older and have slept with more women it takes me longer to get a hard on and they have to do more to turn me on..

I know most guys probably just need to start kissing the girl n its up and ready to go but I need her to start stroking my dick or sucking it or get really dirty for me to really get in the mood.

The weird thing is when I have a relationship I am constantly horny and it doesn't take anything for me to want to have sex with my girl but its usually with random encounters that I need more help getting it up.

Does this happen to any of you guys? I don't just want a girl to lie there and expect it I want her to work me up.. :?
Author:  RVAIS [ Tue May 18, 2010 12:34 am ]
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How old are you?
Author:  deeg [ Thu May 20, 2010 5:18 pm ]
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Dude if that shit is happening you gotta stop beating your meat and you will see yourself improve in the bedroom. I had the same problem I would do it two times everyday (even before parties) and when I got with a girl it would be floppy.
Author:  Hakuna [ Tue May 25, 2010 9:09 am ]
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yeah stop jerkin off so often. And start taking horny goat weed
Author:  anon78910 [ Mon May 31, 2010 6:43 pm ]
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NO MORE PORN. u can jerk it once or twice a week but thats it, if u do think of real life people and not videos. use your imagination, dont let a screen tell you what to like. and always give at least 2 days preparation of not jerking before your going to have sex. dont completely stop jerking it unless you can have sex on a weekly basis, if you wait too long, you may lose your sex drive and that can turn into a mess.
Author:  trebor [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 5:54 pm ]
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Yeah I think jerk off less basically - and when you do use your imagination, because then you can think of the same thing when you need the erection, and you don't need a screen. If you've been jerking off for a long time to porn then that is when your body thinks it has to perform, and not in the real situations. Also, this is more to myself: drink less alcohol.
Author:  minsok [ Tue Jun 01, 2010 11:55 pm ]
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I think you're fine. I'm never satisfied with one night stands because I can't really get into it. In The Game, Style couldn't get hard when he had a porn queen in the bathroom because he didn't build up any connection with her. I think this is what it is to be a civilized man. Sure, it's fail on an evolutionary level, but you're not trying to impregnate these women, are you? Just be happy that you're satisfied when you're in a relationship, those are the ones that count, right?
Author:  wamumor [ Mon Jun 07, 2010 5:07 pm ]
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It may not just be jerking off too much. When I'm with someone I actually care about the sex is much better than someone I hardly know. If you have an emotional link with the girl such as you do in a relationship, you are far more attracted and attached to the girl and its easy to get it up. Last relationship I was in I would have a hard on every time we touched in any sexual way and ready to go. However after we broke up and I was back on the scene, even girls that were hotter than my last girlfriend didn't give me instantaneous boners with mere touching. I think what you are going through is fairly normal and nothing to be too worried about.
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