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| Author: | Rye [ Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | if you are shy, get over it. hope this helps. |
first of all, if you haven't read The Game, read it, it may inspire you and give you confidence like me. second, what i have been doing lately is appraching random people using different canned openers and also putting myself in positions where i normally would not put myself in. for example, i am on a college campus, and i made a decision to eat lunch and dinner alone, and force myself to sit with a group of two or three girls. if that is too much for you, try sitting with one. use an approach such as "need your opinion on if i should get my little sister goldfish or a turtle for her birthday" maintain eye contact with one person, make sure your voice is in tone, hum to yourself before you speak toget the pitch right. two or three girls, approach with the same opener and switch eye contact with both the girls while asking the question. i have been doing this for a good few days now, and i do not get numbers yet. it is a victory that i was actually able to sit down and maintain a conversation, whatever it be, and then leave. i do not even introduce myself at this point yet either because i am still learning. not introducing myself (unless they ask me my name of course) is good too because it makes it seem like you are genuine and u weren't there to just pick them up. once you can maintain a convo just try to be funny. say something stupid, anything it really doesn't matter you just have to learn what works and what doesn't. don't be afraid to fumble or be awkward at first but try to supress it andit will naturally leave your system. everything attempt or intention towards a pickup is a victory in my mind, it should be in yours too. |
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| Author: | Fenixfyre [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 7:09 am ] |
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Thanks for the advice as someone with severe AA this is a bit of a pick me up for me. Im glad im not alone. Thanks again for the tips |
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| Author: | TX_TECH [ Thu Sep 13, 2007 7:51 pm ] |
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great post, i think this will give insight to some of the more shy guys that are new to the PUA community that all it takes it time and effort. |
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| Author: | inmate [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 5:51 am ] |
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thankz man... |
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| Author: | Impact [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 1:18 pm ] |
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Actually shyness can serve you in field. Lets say your doing a opener, your like hey quick questionfflc[ojad]ofjasd]g-jasd and you totally fuckup, just laugh and say omg.. i totally forgot my line! argh girls are horrible! and laugh smile, be like why am i so shy around your kind huh punk answer that! and she will smile and think your gorgeous! That’s pretty much braking in her world and DHV as well.. its strange how well it can work if its genuine! And cool part is that she can tell her friends how she meet this amazing guy who couldn’t say a word, and was genuine and all that rubbish! works.. really does, ive fucked up in field and done exactly this. Remember if your frame is strong enough she will hop into it, no matter what it is. She reflects you, if your happy shes happy. |
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| Author: | Rye [ Wed Sep 19, 2007 1:52 pm ] |
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touche. |
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