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Author:  Borntorun [ Fri Sep 25, 2009 12:01 am ]
Post subject:  Becoming comfortable with dates/kino

Sry it got a long post, but i rly felt like writing it:

hey guys, im from an foreign country and ive been going for this schoolyear to an USHighschool. I dont wanna show off or anything ill just try to tell u how my situation is:
im pretty good looking, i smell good and i have a good style and i can speak pretty fluent english. the girls at my school kind of liked my a lot and i know that some said or think im attractive.
So here comes my issue: i havent had like any experience in the past with girls beyond stuff you do in a group or in the school.

Now i went with a girl who propaply was attracted to me first to mcdonals and then to the shoppingmall.
At MC were also some other people. when i sat to the girl, i went out with, i felt uncomfortable. I know that you could see it, because another girl asked me if i felt uncomfortable :D I got a bit more relaxed when they told me i can be crazy and anything with them and that theyre too, but it wasnt like all away.

When i then went with the girl to the shoppingmall in the beginning it was like this slitly akward feeling. Later i got pretty comfortable and i could tell that she was too, but she wasnt attracted to me anymore.

When she dropped me off home, i kind of realised that i still have a lot discomforts to deal with but i also felt kind of happy to have had this experience.

Im writing this because i kind of felt like it and it was like my first "date-attempt"
and propaply a pretty important experience. Maybe i can give as an advise that if i look at the guys in my school, that looks arent rly important and they are no reason for beeing bad with girls...
Nevertheless i have 2 questions:
how can i make the most of such experiences ?
when i was sitting to that girl at mcdonalds i know my kino sucked. how can you kino a girl when shes sitting next to you and how can i start building up my kino
with girls ?( im not that bad with guys and not in the gay way :D ).

Author:  rizkay [ Fri Oct 02, 2009 3:49 am ]
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Yo man. I like your good attitude that comes through in your writing. My issues are basically the opposite, so maybe I can give a new or useful perspective on the dating. I have always viewed dates as extremely easy. I find myself in a kind of happy haze while on a date with a pretty girl. I don't even know if I'm paying great attention to everything we're talking about...it's just a nice thing. My mindframe is always the work of the initial pickup is done; you have gotten the girl and you are on your way to better things. That, to me is what a date always looks like in my mind: a path to better things. Granted, sometimes those things never materialize, but the worst thing that happens is I waste several hours. And you do learn things.

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