Buccaneer is right, being considered the "nice guy" is a good thing, especially with very attractive women, I mean thank about it - the deal with asshole alpa dipshits everyday, and get wiped off like fresh turd..
The thing you have going is "nice guy" but not "sexual authority".. You have to harness the fact that you are comfortable with women and start pouring in more sexual confidence.
You're winning half the battle!
Again, like the wise Buccaneer said - you dont have a social problem, you just have to assert the next part of the PUA into your life.. and don't get driven away by a room full of people - try keep yourself in the fray whenever you can to get yourself used to it..it'll be your playgorund eventually!
and job wise, just becasue Jesus was a carpenter does not mean it'll put food on the table and payments on the mortgage. You work with wood, so house hold Joinery is a great business to get into - and there is work for that; local Joiners or even housing contractors is the way forward.
Or you could do a full u-turn career wise, learing an industrial trade? I mean, im a rig spark - the work is good, always availability - only down side is 2weeks on a damned rig with maybe 1 or 2 ugly chicks on board. (oh and about 100 dudes) and even then... hitting on the ugly munters will get you done for sexual harrassment at the workplace...
so its Rosey Palmer and her five sisters for a fortnight..
-Illusionist-
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