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Author:  Master Milo [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 2:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Escalation Anxiety
I entered the game about 2 months ago. In that time i've had the chance to make a large number of approaches, both daytime and nightime. The approach anxiety i origenally felt has diminished hugely. This is because I have learned to find the various ways that women reject me quite interesting and funny. I don't let it get to me.

However i've now come to a new hurdle that i need some help with. The reason i don't have very much approach anxiety is because I have opened enough sets to make it easy. However the further I get into each interaction, the more inexperienced i am. This affects my confidence, which will gradually dip from the moment of opening to the intended close. The result is i come across as attractive and desireable, but don't escalate confidently enough, and sometimes fail to k-close, even if the girl is up 4 it.

Does anyone have any advice for overcoming this escalation anxiety and creating positive sexual confidence?

This is my 1st post on this forum by the way, so Hi everyone :D Thanks in advance.
Author:  Power_trip [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 10:38 am ]
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I'm in the same boat brother.....
for me i thought it had something to do with the gossiping people in my dorm..... but i'm starting to realise that gossip is good! That way when people gossip you don't need to spread the good news that you are sexually active. but i still have that escalation anxiety so if someone could enlighten us on some practices or mindsets?
Author:  renegadecow [ Wed Oct 15, 2008 7:54 pm ]
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Hi, and welcome to the forum!
"Game" is like any other skill. The increased anxiety you feel the further you go, is actually a good thing. If you feel that feeling, then you know your pushing your boundaries and learning new skills. Instead of looking at the feeling as a bad thing, realize that without it, you would never be able to judge how far you are along the path.

For only having done this for 2 months, you are doing pretty good, and I would suggest you just keep on going the way you have been doing it. Make sure that with each interaction you feel that anxiety at least once, if you dont, your not going to learn anythign from it and your wasting your time. To master any skill, you need the three p's.... Patience, Practice, and Perservierance.

From my experiance, when all the opening stuff was not a problem anymore, I found that Kino was the one thing that made me the most anxious, so thats what I'm practicing as much as possible. You need to find what part of the interaction is making you anxious and concentrate on fixing that sticking point.
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