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Author:  hockeyguy118 [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 7:54 am ]
Post subject:  Being young in the game at bars
Hey everyone I'm new here and uh yea i'm looking to get into the game and my prime location is bars and clubs, my main problem is i'm always confident going to the bars, but if I only go with 2 or 3 friends I always feel like i'm too young for most of the HB's there. I`m 18 right now and that`s legal drinking age where I live, but it seems to me like all the HB 9`s and 10's are either older then me or the same age but looking for someone older. Now I don't look young for my age, and I usually stand out pretty well when I go to the bars ( I dress pretty well, am pretty tall) but I just feel less superior to the 21-24 year old guys there. Now my question is how can I get these HB`s to open up to me and how can I build attraction with them I already work out pretty regularly but I kind of stick to my slimmer guy look and am not looking to turn into a meathead really. So yea does anybody having any tips on this matter, maybe even on how I can improve my inner game when in this situation. I already have had a very disapointing night a couple weeks ago when i start talking dancing etc with an HB9 and I make the rookie mistake of telling her my age before finding hers out ( she turns out to be 21) damn but yea I`ve learned from that. Ive found over the past few weeks I have more confidence in countries bars for some reason when I happen to hate country. i just stick to my kind of preppyish like j lindeberg look and dance like I`m at a rave or something and it gets me some good attention I even pulled off a crank dat soulja boy dance with my friend at a country bar when a line dance was playing and I got some good vibes from some HB9s sitting at a table. I also find when I go to a bar with like 20 of my friends for birthdays and such I have more confidence to but yea I need help for the majority of the time when I`m stuck feeling down on my age. I also live at home meaning all I`m really looking for is the number close with the hottest HBs i can find. Thanks any helps appreciated.
Author:  Student X [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:32 am ]
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Just keep going, keep going man. If you believe they like the older guys, well keep sarging and learning for the next 5 years, and when your 24 you'll be "old enough" and a more experienced PUA. Just slog through it and it'll come.

Don't worry about your age, I'm 19, and when I meet MILF's they always tell me "aww your still a baby" and other people tell me i look about 16 :shock: can be annoying and such.

As for inner game, get this sorted, "I'm going to this club cos I want to have a good time with my friends, if everyone else is older than me, tough, their problem if they think I'm TOO young for them, their mistake."

As well as sarging, don't take all PUA advice as the gospel (including my own) , experiment for yourself.

Trust yourself.

Student X...
Author:  JackyKernels [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 10:17 am ]
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listen man....i am 18 also...skinny and asian.

i dance with all kinds of hot girls and they like rape me on the dance floor (literally hump me till im just like "ok..thats enough for now...thanks")

they key i think is to just go to the club not focusing on picking up girls...but to HAVE FUN and DANCE! learn some dance moves! and dress nice. wear nice cologne...i dance with this girl and we were all close and shit, she told me i smelled very nice and asked if i wore cologne, we made out after that on the dance floor..... this other chick asked me if i my friends and i wanted to go to her house for a party the same night...and i danced with this HB9 white girl grabbing her ass n shit....i cud see she was insecure so i went in and gave her some attention she was craving........ this was the 3rd time i had been to the bar in my entire life. i am proud of myself and i think i need to like slow down lolz... im not even looking for sex.

oh yeah and all these girls r over 19, the girl i made out with is 20 i believe..
Author:  virtuosity [ Tue Feb 26, 2008 10:34 pm ]
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Why do you bring up age at all? More than that... Lie... Lie... Lie... Lie. Just fake it till you make it.

If your at a bar don't bring up age, don't ask them how old they are just be confident about who you are. If someone asks you how old you are. 20, or 21 whatever you want to say. They will believe whatever you tell them. That will totally eliminate the worry you may have about someone asking your age, because you will immediately have a confident answer for them.

I've lied to women about my age. When I was 19, I was having sex on a regular basis with this 35 year old milf. She thought I was 22. We had sex all the time for months. And to this day she never knew my real age. Frankly I don't even recall if I told her my real name. I think I told her my name was John, it's not.

Your old enough to drink... so your old enough to be there... game on.
Author:  diggidoyo [ Thu Mar 13, 2008 8:19 am ]
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If your age slips out and she percieves that as a negative trait and comments about it (such as the "aww your still a baby" that was mentioned), take it as a shit test and throw it right back at her.

"Yeah, you're right, grandma. How did I even get in here?"
"Thanks, grandma, I'll remember that one"

Of course, say whatever fits the situation but emphasize the grandma and give it with a smile/smirk. It's just a playful way to put the disqualifying flag back in her territory.
Author:  Sin7 [ Wed Mar 26, 2008 5:46 am ]
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I moved down to Louisiana when I was 18 we used to club every night, It sounds like your use to having them open u this is fine but if it doesn't happen make a move. when age comes up tell them your old enough or older than you look, If they persist neg them with "don't worry I'm leagal but not easy" another trick I used was buying virgin mixed drinks so they assumed I was older then let them taste it, of course it's gonna taste good to them if they say it's weak just say it's a good bartender. I rember when I was 17 and I F-closed a chick me and my wing met an appartment complex they were having a bachleoret party no guy's!! lol pardise horny drunk women we talked ourselfs in by saying we were gonna strip for them :) the whole night a 24 year old kept telling me i was to young the next morning she said I was older than I looked, If they make you feel young make them feel to old, the ones your age just want fun,they'll want your young ass trust me.
Author:  vivalaking [ Mon Apr 07, 2008 6:20 pm ]
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i dont think age matters too much in the bar scene, since you can lie about it.

funny story i just got reminded of though, i was at a friend's house, and she had friends over. 4-5 girls me and another guy. needless to say, it was good times. Im close with the family so we know each other pretty well. Haha her grandma was there and at dinner she saw me and she was like "if i was 40 years younger id have my way with you all night"

the table went quiet and i said thanks, and we all just busted up. shits hilarious. gramma be spittin game! im not into it, but it was funny.
Author:  vivalaking [ Mon Apr 07, 2008 6:21 pm ]
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i dont think age matters too much in the bar scene, since you can lie about it.

funny story i just got reminded of though, i was at a friend's house, and she had friends over. 4-5 girls me and another guy. needless to say, it was good times. Im close with the family so we know each other pretty well. Haha her grandma was there and at dinner she saw me and she was like "if i was 40 years younger id have my way with you all night"

the table went quiet and i said thanks, and we all just busted up. shits hilarious. gramma be spittin game! im not into it, but it was funny.
Author:  Ka [ Mon Apr 07, 2008 9:06 pm ]
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Very simple field tested method for crushing the age difference...

1. Dont bring it up - if it doesnt bother you they will not be bothered by it
2. If they bring it up -

"O so your one of those people who judge maturity based on a number."
Do not say this laffing or smiling, say it serious.

Let them respond then talk about something else, if they bring it up more times rotate this, C&F, and ignoring...C&F might be something like, "God i thought we talked about this already, or did you forget?"..this you can laff and smile about and then change direction.

ive seen it used in a place where they physically mark people with big black X's on thier hands if they are under 21...and its very noticable...and this worked wonders.
Author:  horton [ Tue Apr 08, 2008 7:02 am ]
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I think if you just don't worry about the age difference, then they won't.
Author:  wtfpwnage [ Sat Apr 19, 2008 7:08 pm ]
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put it this way: You're not too young, they're just too old! LOL
Author:  bradley c [ Mon Apr 21, 2008 10:07 pm ]
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Yeah, i find bars tricky to sarge in, I find it hard to get in as I'm only 17, pretty hard to game HB's. :?
Author:  1cane [ Fri May 02, 2008 9:09 am ]
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I would say something along the lines of "I'm 18 sweetheart, why? how old are you? Will you be able to keep up?"

C&F of course.
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