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Author:  Eerie [ Wed Apr 24, 2013 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Anxiety within relationships.
When already in a relationship or when you already have feelings for a girl, do any of you get harsh anxiety when you worry about the girl?

For example, I get anxiety about my oneitis all the time. I've been trying to work her into a relationship slowly. We are friends with benefits at the moment. We make out from time to time and I can f close her next time she comes to my place. But I get anxiety when I worry of she doesn't have feelings for me. She has said she doesn't before but we still have "benefits." I couldn't imagine a girl like her who gets into making out who wouldn't at least eventually get feelings. Especially after I f close her.

How do you guys deal with intra-relationship anxiety?
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Apr 24, 2013 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxiety within relationships.
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When already in a relationship or when you already have feelings for a girl, do any of you get harsh anxiety when you worry about the girl?

For example, I get anxiety about my oneitis all the time. I've been trying to work her into a relationship slowly. We are friends with benefits at the moment. We make out from time to time and I can f close her next time she comes to my place. But I get anxiety when I worry of she doesn't have feelings for me. She has said she doesn't before but we still have "benefits." I couldn't imagine a girl like her who gets into making out who wouldn't at least eventually get feelings. Especially after I f close her.

How do you guys deal with intra-relationship anxiety?
Fuck other girls.

It's a normal feeling for you to get. Logically, it takes about 7 minutes for her to have sex with another man. That's why you are thinking about her all of the time. You don't want another guy fucking your girl. It's part of the protective nature that comes with being a man. Just ignore the feeling. It is all in your head.
Author:  Eerie [ Wed Apr 24, 2013 10:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxiety within relationships.
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When already in a relationship or when you already have feelings for a girl, do any of you get harsh anxiety when you worry about the girl?

For example, I get anxiety about my oneitis all the time. I've been trying to work her into a relationship slowly. We are friends with benefits at the moment. We make out from time to time and I can f close her next time she comes to my place. But I get anxiety when I worry of she doesn't have feelings for me. She has said she doesn't before but we still have "benefits." I couldn't imagine a girl like her who gets into making out who wouldn't at least eventually get feelings. Especially after I f close her.

How do you guys deal with intra-relationship anxiety?
Fuck other girls.

It's a normal feeling for you to get. Logically, it takes about 7 minutes for her to have sex with another man. That's why you are thinking about her all of the time. You don't want another guy fucking your girl. It's part of the protective nature that comes with being a man. Just ignore the feeling. It is all in your head.
Lol if fucking other girls were easy. Sure my number is only at ten now and it's been a good 8-10 months without.

How am I ever supposed to have feelings for a girl if I get anxiety.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 3:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxiety within relationships.
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When already in a relationship or when you already have feelings for a girl, do any of you get harsh anxiety when you worry about the girl?

For example, I get anxiety about my oneitis all the time. I've been trying to work her into a relationship slowly. We are friends with benefits at the moment. We make out from time to time and I can f close her next time she comes to my place. But I get anxiety when I worry of she doesn't have feelings for me. She has said she doesn't before but we still have "benefits." I couldn't imagine a girl like her who gets into making out who wouldn't at least eventually get feelings. Especially after I f close her.

How do you guys deal with intra-relationship anxiety?
Fuck other girls.

It's a normal feeling for you to get. Logically, it takes about 7 minutes for her to have sex with another man. That's why you are thinking about her all of the time. You don't want another guy fucking your girl. It's part of the protective nature that comes with being a man. Just ignore the feeling. It is all in your head.
Lol if fucking other girls were easy. Sure my number is only at ten now and it's been a good 8-10 months without.

How am I ever supposed to have feelings for a girl if I get anxiety.
As cruel as it may sound... You kind of have to learn how to ignore your feelings.
Author:  NamelessHero [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Anxiety within relationships.
nevermind what she says she does have feelings for you....she perhaps isnt good at expressing it or you arent good at detecting it... she does have feelings for you... other than that anxiety may be a symptom of an emptiness in your life or of not following what you really really want in your hearts of hearts...

nature kinda abhors vacum and if you dont fill your life with activities you like then some rubish thoughts or anxiety enters the scene...find activities that you truly enjoy doing, something that you like so much that even thinking of that make your face shine and you feel blissfull...do that activities often and the anxiety will resolve of itself...in any given day always plan such activities in advance so that you always have something to anticipate with joy and to look forward to....

on another forum I read a post from a guy with the following great signature:
Only antidote to negativity, worry and low self esteem is positive purposeful constructive action in the direction of your GOALs -Brian Tracy
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