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HARLEM SHAKE !!!! SHYNESS DESTROYER !
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Author:  PUABeast [ Sun Feb 24, 2013 2:34 am ]
Post subject:  HARLEM SHAKE !!!! SHYNESS DESTROYER !
I know this might be off topic but I felt when I did the Harlem Shake in public worked on my shyness LOL I'm not that shy but i was shy enough to feel uncomfortable doing the harlem shake hahaha! You guys should try it out :D ! Doing something crazy in public like dancing in public help with your shyness :D! WHat have you guys done to help with your shyness?

on youtube

/watch?v=kC7GfsXOTHc&list=UUT0L6W2lnqSUJj1b3WYCXgQ&index=1
Author:  7000 [ Sat Mar 02, 2013 11:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HARLEM SHAKE !!!! SHYNESS DESTROYER !
Yeah I did a flashmob in London - we did it at 4 different locations over the whole day. First time I was a bit uncomfortable doing it, but I realised that people stand around and watch, most join in or enjoy themselves looking at you, then walk off as soon as you've finished and never see them again!

So then the other times I felt far more comfortable - what was there to feel uncomfortable about? If people thought we looked ridiculous, then they would walk off 3 minutes later and I'd never see them again, so who cared?

Helped a lot with my early approach anxiety/social shyness.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 1:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HARLEM SHAKE !!!! SHYNESS DESTROYER !
1. Have NO shame: Realize, there are currently over 7 billion people on Earth as of today. Rejection is nothing to be afraid of and people are much more civil. If one woman says “Go Away!” or doesn’t like something you said and reacts in a negative manner, you simply talk to the next girl.
2. Don’t Hesitate: If you see a girl you are interested in, engage the conversation immediately. Waiting around will make you seem “creepy” and your approach will look completely un-natural.
3. RELAX: Women can read right through your emotions and your emotions are contagious. If you are nervous, she will be nervous too. Women are more interested in your behavioral ques than they are what you are saying to them. Keep your shoulders relaxed, maintain eye contact, and smile.
4. Have NO Expectations of outcome: If you are expecting something then you are allowing yourself to fail. Become a more social being and be seeking nothing when approaching people. Again, women can see right through you. Truly having no expectations of outcome and realizing that if you say something wrong to this one girl, it is not the end of the world.
5. Desensitize yourself!: Do you remember the first time you rode a bike? It was scary right? “Pedals are here, brakes are here, I have to steer this with WHAT!?” As with anything, practice makes perfect. If you make it a habit to do nothing other than approach people, when the “right” girl comes along, you will be ready.
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