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| Author: | Penrose118 [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Fine with initial approach but not creative |
Hi, I am fine with approaching girls because I am relatively good looking, but I don't have a creative mind so I'm not very playful. I ask basic q's like how are you, whats going on...boring stuff. Are there good examples of creative openers and then even more things that are creative along the way that I could use? I usually end up speaking to the girl for 5 mins max until she gets really bored. |
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| Author: | ez_attraction [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 6:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fine with initial approach but not creative |
The first thing to ask yourself is, "Why I am approaching this particular girl?" If you are approaching her because you are sexually attracted to her, then why not let that guide you in terms of what to talk to her about? In other words, you are not really interested in talking to her about 'the weather' or 'her cat'. Why not tell her how turned on you are by the way her dress shows off her amazing figure? Why not tell her how well her outfit really suits her? Why not tell her that you love being in the company of a friendly, lovely womnn so you had to come and say hello to her. Why not tell her that you have told yourself that from now on you won't talk to women about the 'weather' but only about important things like how does she keep herself in such excellent shape. Ask her to share with you the secret to her great physique. Now, don't you feel these topics of conversation are a bit more interesting than 'the weather'? The added bonus is that these are the very sorts of things that are actually on your mind when you approach a girl you are sexually attracted to. |
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| Author: | Penrose118 [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 9:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fine with initial approach but not creative |
"Why not tell her how turned on you are by the way her dress shows off her amazing figure? Why not tell her how well her outfit really suits her?" Isn't that something that would get me slapped in the face for? Or owuldnt she think i am a pervert? |
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| Author: | ez_attraction [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 11:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fine with initial approach but not creative |
Okay, Let us assume that she slaps you in the face and calls you a pervert. So what? You are not insulting her. You are not going up to her in a creepy, threatening way and saying you want to physically attack her! You are complimenting her! If a girl slaps you in the face or insults you for complimenting her and telling her how great she looks, what does that say about her? Is that the sort of girl you want to be with? The vast majority of women that get complimented on their looks by a guy do not end up slapping the guy in the face and calling him a pervert. Try it out for yourself and see! And even if she does slap you in the face, that is a lot better than if she grabbed a stick and started hitting you over the head with it! |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 2:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fine with initial approach but not creative |
This is going to sound fucked up, but have you ever heard about how child molesters "seduce" kids? They don't just say "PULL DOWN YOUR PANTS!" They ease them into it and say things like "What color of underwear do you have? Do you like blue? My underwear is blue. Want to see it?" It's a subtle, under-handed way of sexual escalation. The same type of strategies work with women. You ask them when their last relationship was. Then ask what they are looking for in a guy. Then ask if they are just looking for sex or something more. Then ask them if they have ever had a one night stand. Tell them you have before but it's not really your style. Before you know it you are saying the word "sex" with them repeatedly. Then you move on to their person and appearance. "So I noticed you wear a lot of bracelets and jewelry. (as you touch their arm and feel the jewelry)" Then act shocked, "Wow, you have really pretty fingers! (hold her hand and rub her nails)" At this point she'll be eating it up and giggling and giving ioi's. Oh, and did I mention that you have to man up and not be afraid to get sexual with a woman you just met? If you're just going to be AFC about it then don't even bother opening the set in the first place. Just sit back and nurse your beer and slowly peel the label off it while some other guy with balls works his way into this girl's pants. |
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| Author: | Penrose118 [ Thu Dec 27, 2012 4:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Fine with initial approach but not creative |
Awesome advice guys. I will try it. I need to MAN up. |
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